Can I tell a guy that I love him, in a joking way, so he doesn't get scared because i've known him for only a month, but still get the message?
2007-08-06 02:51:28 · 27 answers · asked by The Universal Brain System 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not after a month. Let him do the telling.
2007-08-06 02:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by DrIG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you truly love him and you feel it's the right time just tell him. I don't think something like that can be said in a joking way and your point still come across. If you feel it's too early maybe you can show him in other ways.... for example, making him dinner, or buying him a gift. If the time isn't right, then the time isn't right.... don't rush it, it's worth waiting for, and you will know when the time is right!
2007-08-06 09:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but don't tell him this verbally. Show him with body language, and I do not mean sex. Start introducing activity like kissing him on the neck, which should be a seamless progression from a kiss on the cheek. This has to be done correctly and gradually, so that you let him discover the truth of your feelings. If he does not reciprocate, then telling him is irrelavent.
2007-08-06 09:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ron S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you can do, the best thing, to send a guy RUNNING for the hills is to tell him something like that. Even if you feel it is mutual, It's better that you keep something like that to yourself. There is no need to show him all of your cards at once. Besides the best way to tell him, is thru your actions. Then and only then, will he kno.
Good Luck :)
2007-08-06 09:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by *Mrs. Butler* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt more, but dont be like "i love you". Ask him as a friend that if you ever asked him out hed say yes. And then outta curiostity hell ask the same question. Just as friends tho so hes not scared. And then if you say yes to teh question- ehll ask you out if he likes you. Then going out... wait for the right time if youre positive he feels the same way. Best of luck girl! <33
2007-08-06 09:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure if you can love in just a month, because love doesn't come so fast, attraction does but loves is more strong so you have to know how does he feels about you. do you think he love you? if you get intimate with him take that risk but if you only seeing him, like date things, take more time.
good luck
2007-08-06 09:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by †○ αυяιтα вυттєяfℓу ¢σяℓєσиє ○† 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be a little to soon to drop the love word, we dont want to scare him now. I think u should just show him maybe buy him things or take him places.
Good luck
2007-08-06 09:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Honey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really love him tell him say I know weve been together for only a month but i think im falling in love with you !!
2007-08-06 09:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Marissa!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in a joking way then how will he know it is for real ? , tell him straight out, if it scares him so be it at least you know where you stand..
2007-08-06 09:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oky to be completly honest. you dont love him. i know i know you prolly HATE hearing that. but seriously. its just a major crush. god i tohught i loved so many boys. im a fall in love easy type of girl. but once he is gone, i realize i moved on to someone else..thus it was just a crush. but i wouldn't do it...i have gotten some freaky answers.
maybe if he tells you sumthing really helpful some time or you guess are just playing around you could be like "omg thank you so muhc i love you now!!" say it like a joky way. or if sumting happens like..he makes fun you ((again joking)) be like ""haha g thank, lov you too..."....see what he says..=]
hope i helped at all
2007-08-06 09:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋