well, my friend started dating a girl, a week ago he asked me if i could hang out with him, well i agreed.
everything was fine, untill his girlfriend came, and of course he abandond me and started talking to her, i was left alone in the juice shop, and oh brother he forgot to pay for his things, too.
i felt like a rag, i got old, and he bought a new one, and put me in the trash can! and 3 days a go the same happend, and today too.
and when she is not around he keeps laughting with her on the cell phone, i mean why invite me to come if he is going to talk to his gf.
i know it is important to him, but she is taking all his time, she is his gf for only 5 or 6 weeks and i knew him since kindegardan!
2007-08-06 02:44:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well..it happens al the time..since they are a new couple they are really excited to be together...just give it some time..but i do reccomend that u talk to him..tell him u want to hang out sometime and stuff...im sure he doenst want to lose his freind..and besides..when he fights with her he'll talk to u about it cuz u 2 r good freinds...just give it sometime!
2007-08-06 03:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more common than you think. I just answered a similar question this morning. I had it happened to me too a few times and I am afraid to tell you than it doesn't really get any better. The older you get you will find that some friends are gonna be like that. It hurts and it is very unfair. Some friends don't know how to balance their time. They leave their friends in the cold and when their heart is broken, you are the first person they are gonna come running back to.
I had a friend who did that to me last year. Sorry to say we are not friends anymore even though we are friendly. I still say hello and vice versa. but we don't talk on the phone and so on anymore. Try to find a hobby and keep yourself preoccupied with other things so that you have an escape hatch when friends become like this.
2007-08-06 09:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him and confront him about whats upsetting you and tell him how you feel. Talk to him about having a guys day out maybe go see a Game that you both enjoy. The most important thing is tell how you feel because if you bottle it up inside for a long time soon or later its gonna pop out and it may in a harmful way. When your talking to him stay calm about and tell him how long its been happening for and that want a chance to hangout without leaving you there or inviting his gf. or talking on the phone with her.
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2007-08-06 10:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by dollkelsey1997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you try growing up a little and leave your friend alone for a while? If he calls and asks you to hang out, say no. Tell him you have something else to do.
Or you could just straight up tell him to stop inviting you to hang out if he's going to spend the whole time chatting with his girlfriend on the phone and stick you with the bill.
2007-08-06 10:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such is the way of the world. Remeber in the Lion King, when Simba ran off with Nala and abandoned Timon and Pumbaa. Same deal.
2007-08-06 09:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Cybele 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can either talk to him if his friendship is that important to you. or you beat him at his own game.. find someone else to hang out with and when he asks you to hang out when his gf isn't around tell him you are busy.. it isn't right to have someone pick you up and drop you off whenever they feel like it... don't be used.
2007-08-06 09:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by Daniyells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may find that this happens to you through out your life, i have had the same problem but i stook to respecting my friend and i always stayed in touch with them and i told her that i was upset and that i didnt want a partner to come between us, then eventually when then relationship died then she realised that i was a true friend for being here for her and she respected me more the next time a boy came around.
2007-08-06 09:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Hayley w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for you to let go of the boyhood crush on your buddy and get yourself a girlfriend. Your friend is just growing up. You should try it.
2007-08-06 09:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend did this to me too... its not very nice i know i dont know why she invited him when i was oing to be there. I didn know he would be there so i was like a third wheel. Try to get yourself a girlfriend?
2007-08-06 10:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Louisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He´s becoming a man!
2007-08-06 09:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by charlie888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋