Been with a girl a few weeks, Ive always been nothing but honest with her because she talks about how much she hates being lied to, yet, I found out a week ago that she has dated a girl before. She talks about this girl everytime her name is mentioned saying how much she hates her, but she lied to me about the reasons why she hates her.
2007-08-06 02:34:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Anon,
Yes, you should end your relationship. Hon, at the very least you are at risk for HIV/AIDS in seeing someone who has had a same sex relationship. This is unhealthy. This person has lied to you. Do you need more reasons to walk away? Do so now before you get the gift that keeps on taking (AIDS) from her.
Good luck. See a doctor! :)
2007-08-06 02:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Peanut 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think in relationships, the past often is not something we can ask someone to be totally honest about. On the other hand, if you think she would demand that you tell her all the details about your past, then yes, this is a double standard. Second, it sounds like she has not been able to cope with the relationship with the other woman. Ask her what happened and see if there are unresolved issues and see what she says. It might have been an experiment gone bad and she is over it except some pain from realizing it was not what she wanted. And she is blaming the other girl.
2007-08-06 02:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dude she's out there and most dudes actually like that not sure why she is lying to you about that. But if you can't trust someone with lying about more trivial stuff you can't trust them with real issues either. She is confused and trying to find someone to give her something in a relationship that she is not willing to give herself.
In the future, if someone goes on about how they hate someone and aren't too specific about why they hate someone, it is because of their feelings for that person; either what happened, or what they would like to happen or even how their insecurities about that person and what they represent define them. You don't always need to know the exact reason.
2007-08-06 02:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she could be bi sexual. Why don't you ask her? If she's not cheating on you... it's not big deal right? Are you in a committed relationship or are you casual? I;d try point blank asking her. If she doesn't tell the truth, then you can decide how you want to treat this.
2007-08-06 02:38:50 · answer #4 · answered by teritaur 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea you should end it. there is a double standard. how can you be with someone who lies to you and you try not to lie to her.
2007-08-06 02:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it happened last night and the night before it was so cool and i have nothing else to do!
2007-08-06 04:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dated a girl?????? hmmmm end it but not for ur reasons!!
2007-08-06 02:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by the freakin' analyst 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one word--threesome!!! i had a bisexual ex girl and believe me...it's a lot of fun.
2007-08-06 02:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see you doesn't like a liar;however,she is one... not a keeper....
2007-08-06 02:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, end it.......NOW!!!!!!
2007-08-06 02:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋