What are the guys plan if he gets a woman pregnant?? It is very very hard not to call a man stupid or immature if he splits. If a man doesn't want children why do some refuse to get fixed??????
2007-08-06 19:31:40 · 8 answers · asked by Miranda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a vasectomy when I was 21, because I don’t want kids. I only date women that feel the same way. Most of them are “fixed” as well.
On top of that I still use condoms even though I had a vasectomy.
The men that won’t get vasectomies are just egotistical jerks.
2007-08-09 16:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Marvin 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
1. Some people just don't want them, just like some people just refuse to eat coconut. It's just one of those things. There are women who don't want kids too.
2. He probably won't get her pregnant as long as he makes sure to use birthcontrol properly.
3. Who said he'd split? That's a big assumption on your part.
4. He probably refused to get fixed because it is surgery and it costs money. Plus, most doctors will not "fix" a guy by the same rules as "fixing a woman". They have to be past a certain age and/or already have a certain number of children.
2007-08-06 19:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I disagree... I lived with a single mother for five years and helped her raise two little girls from infancy to Kindergarten.
I am not with them now, but I still miss them very much, and I guess those two girls must be in their mid 20's by now.
I considered the experience a blessing, proof that I did my part in raising two humans up in the world.
I would jump on another experience like it in an instance. And, if I could go back to where I left off, in the old experience, I would.... Hardly anybody, "doesn't want" kids, But a healthy excuse might be that kids, to men, are always something, 'down the road a spell', instead of something staring at them in the face, like for women.
Women are naturally better at facing up to the reality of kids, because it is they who bear kids, as part of living.
A man, without a girlfriend, would not even consider having kids, because they don't even have a girlfriend. It is 'off their radar screen', until step 1) They find one, step 2) They start having enough sexual experiences to consider it, in time. Both take serious preparation and a bit of luck and timing, whereas women are just naturally born with the gift.
2007-08-06 19:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know exactly what you're saying! My best friend was with this sleazy guy and he said he just wanted sex for fun, so he was never responsible enough to buy condoms or anything. She took care of herself but she still ended up pregnant and he LEFT HER!! He was like "oh honey i said no babies"....guys need to get effing vasectomies if they don't want kids! Most guys I've talked to tho said it takes away their "manhood"... and I'm just like.. d@mn..u can still jack off a million times a day.
2007-08-06 19:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man who gets a woman pregnant clearly wants to have a baby to begin with or he would be allot smarter about it... like getting fixed...
2007-08-06 19:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by I Heart 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some people just don't want kids,
and i think its a guy thing about getting "fixed", they don't want to have kids but they want to feel adequate and want to be able to please a woman and many are insecure about that already so they don't like the idea
2007-08-06 19:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by secretservice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want children right now (I am 33)
I don't have children so I don't want to deal with anyone elses children.
2007-08-06 19:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by "Rev-Jim-Baker" 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. kids are kids next time you see a kid watch them annoying and just uhhh.
2. getting fixed umm just no think bout it again hes a GUY what makes a guy a guy ?
2007-08-06 19:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋