I want to tie up my wife for her birthday. I am not sure on how to do this to her though. How do I seduce her to the bedroom? Do I lay her on the bed tied up? Do I let her see or do I put a blindfold on her? And do I make her put on sexy lingerie and then take it off, and start with her completely naked? Also any ideas on what exactly I do to her? And when should I untie her?
Thank you, and what are some other kinky things we could do? (I am 26 she is going to be 25)
2007-08-06 19:01:42 · 7 answers · asked by The Perfect Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh yeah, I know she'll want to do it, she is up for anything, she is very sexual and loves new things
2007-08-06 19:13:35 · update #1
Yeah, we have done similar things, and she absolutely loves it. I know this is something she'll want, I mean she is MY wife.
2007-08-06 19:15:35 · update #2
Okay, so you said she's into it, well my previous suggestion still stands: "Head to your local adult shop and don't be embarrassed to ask the people who work there. You will never be the freakiest thing they've seen in there, trust me : )"
You haven't described your options, but things need not start in the bedroom. Can you set up a greeting at the door for her, say dim lights, candles, soft music and petals leading to the bathroom with a steaming hot scented bath and something sexy for her to change into after? Little notes would be cute but silence is more mysterious. Leave a note like "Come find me" and come up behind her with a blind fold and slip it on before she sees you. Lead her to the bedroom, tie her up and let the games begin.
Remember, she's quite literally not going to see any of this coming and she's unable to stop you once you have her tied up, so you have to surprise her at all times. As it's her birthday and she can't move, it's also about pleasuring her as much as humanly possible. It's an exercise in control and trust as well, which what gives it a kick.
If you're going for sensory deprevation you have to accentuate all the other senses - touch, taste, hearing, smell. There are great oils out there which create a burning sensation when your partner blows on them. Alternate it with some ice that you're holding in your mouth maybe? Feed her things that are her favs and maybe eat them yourself... from strategic places. Talk to her throughout. Watch her reactions and go for the ones that get the biggest response I say. Only your imagination limits your choices here mate. As you said, you are her husband so you'll know what she's into more than any of us.
These suggestions are not as kinky as you'll get in a sex shop though. Really, ask them. They stock the shelves after all, they know what's there. Have fun : )
2007-08-06 19:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that you want to do the 'tying' on 'HER BIRTHDAY'.
Shouldn't you be treating her to what she wants, not what you want. Why don't you hold off until your birthday and ask her if she'll do that for your gift.
Men seem to think that women want to go that extra mile on their own birthdays! Let her have her fun, doing what she wants! Maybe she would like to tie you up in your sexy lingerie!
2007-08-07 02:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to close her eyes for a helluva birthday surprise.
Then 'wallam!' put those handcuffs on her and say, 'I gotcha
now.'
2007-08-07 04:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope that she wants that, otherwise it won't be much of a birthday present.
Do be sure first.
And don't forget the tickle feather!
2007-08-07 02:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have alot of fun with food ? Have fun lol.
2007-08-07 02:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. have a fun night . if you dont know what to do ask her she let you know. my opion?
2007-08-07 02:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol : ) have a fun night.
2007-08-07 02:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by OC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋