me and my b/f have been dating for 4 years. and he keeps talking about marriage but i'm not all that sure i like him and we've been together for a long time what should i choose?
2007-08-06 16:45:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you aren't sure you like him why are you still together? If you meant that you love him enough to marry him then I would just turn him down if he proposes. No need to hitch your horse to a wagon you don't like before it starts out.
2007-08-06 16:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4 years and you aren't sure if you like him?! What the hell? It's 4 damn years! How can you not be sure unless you've been stringing the brother along, in which case you should just let him go so he can find someone he deserves.
2007-08-06 23:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mistah J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know it when you are ready. When you are truly in love you will have no doubts.That should be the only reason to start a family and give a new life. Otherwise it would turn into disaster.Good luck.
2007-08-06 23:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Searching 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has the same car, golf clubs, couch and tennis shoes for the last four years just wait alittle longer. If he has up dated any of the above move on.
P.S. Check how old his underwear are.
2007-08-07 00:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by deon69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one thing i have a hard time with... understanding how people can be in a relationship for so long and not really know if they want to be with them. you can either break up now and get it over with, or get a divorce in 10 years and have to worry about child support/custody... which sounds more appealing?
2007-08-06 23:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When in doubt don't do it
if you don't like him you sure want be happy when you get married .you have to be sure you don't just like him you have to love him to be happy in a marriage
2007-08-07 00:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by stormybrahm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating for 4 yrs, and u r not sure u like him, hello
2007-08-07 00:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose to be sure first
2007-08-06 23:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get marred...
Make sure your 100% sure thats what YOU want!
Make sure your 100% sure you guys LOVE (not Like) each other!
& 100% sure your happy with him!
and if you are. then its your call to say Yes!
2007-08-06 23:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask youself questiond. Is he the one i want to spend teh rest of my life with ? Do i see my self with him? DO i want to have a family with him? I dont think your ready because you said you dont like him. you should get married to the one that you love and care about, and want to spend the rest of your life with!
2007-08-07 00:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by Inessik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋