Am I In Too Deep?

Question

So there is this 25 year old guy I attend school with, who has a two year old daughter who is raising her alone (the mom is in a whole different state). I'm 19 no kids, but I really like him...ALOT. The problem is I have a 21 year old boyfriend who has recently been working my nerves, it's like everything he does seems so immature to me now, and I'm not sure how to tell him that he needs to do some changes or me and him can't be together anymore. Plus i'm already falling hard for mister 25 over here. What should I do? I should I play it out or move on?

Answer 1

Well, how long have you and your boyfriend been together? If the two of you have been in a relationship for awhile now, I would suggest you try to work things out with your beau before you throw in the towel. You owe that much to it, so you don't feel like you wasted all that time for nothing.

But if you and your boyfriend haven't been an item for long, and even though you've spoken to him about him immaturity before and nothing seems to change, then I would suggest going on hiatus with each other for a bit and seeing other people.

If things work out with "Mister 25" and nothing has changed between you and "Immature 21", then break up officially with "Immature" and start seeing "25".

Answer 2

I can't tell you what to do. These are your feelings. One thing for certain, you need a break from your boyfriend to figure out how you really feel about him, before you think of anything else, because you have been easily swayed by another man.
Also remember that when you made this guy your boyfriend you were taking him for who he was, not who you wanted him to be.

Answer 3

Stop setting up your next man before you're finished with the current one. Decide first if you want to continue with your boyfriend. If you decide not to, break up completely and then you can move on.

But be honest with yourself about your feelings.