I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we've had lots of sex and she says most of the time she is very satisfied and yet i cant make her orgasm please help me it worries me that i cant make her orgasm ....thank you in advanced
2007-08-06 16:40:09 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't poop on your own wiener.
2007-08-08 18:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not that uncommon. The majority of women can't have a vaginal orgasm. You're not doing anything wrong and it's actually really nice of you to be concerned about her pleasure - so many men don't care. Some women need clitoral stimulation during intercourse to have an orgasm - that's something you could try. Or give her an orgasm before intercourse by giving her oral sex.
2016-05-20 02:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~You are obviously simply getting laid or having sex. If you had any ability, any concern for her, and the patience to learn her body and mind, it would be no problem. You'd be getting her off at least 5 times to your one. Of course, since you're only in it for your enjoyment and she's probably never been with anyone that knew how to make love, you included, you've both got some work and learning to do. Maybe when you grow up it'll get better. In the meantime, stop being so selfish and don't let yourself go until she does. Listen to what her body is trying to tell you and yours when you're in the sack.
On the other hand, if she says she's satisfied and she hasn't experienced an orgasm, maybe you should count your blessings and let the sleeping dog lie. If she gets off by accident just once, she'll never be satisfied without it again. And the fault is not with her. At best it is both or you, but you have the responsibility to get her there and you can't or don't know how, then a large portion of the blame is yours. Love and learn, kid. It takes a lot more than sticking tab A into slot B and squirting.
2007-08-06 16:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Women get their orgasms different ways...
By clitoris stimulation
by GSpot stimulation whe penetrating
by stimulating nipples and breast
neck, low back, stomach, and inner tights are very sensible too...
but the most important thing is that you have to create a good atmosphere and try not to rush..men can be ready in seconds but for women it takes at least half and hour of different stimulation for prepare the body for orgasm...
Some rough movements can be quite exciting but doesn't mean that your reaching the correct places...
Anyways...make her confortable and try to make her mastubate and tell you what does she does or what does she touches that make her orgasm...
Good luck and don't give up....it's not either fault......
2007-08-06 16:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
some girls may never orgasm. its just the way shes made. as long as shes happy, your doing fine =] if she wants to though, you guys could bring a toy or something into the sex life and maybe the excitement will trigger an orgasm. but most likely she may never get one. good luck =]
2007-08-06 16:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by kay lay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This has been happening to me since i was younger. In life , the majority of women wont have an orgasm. Its not you at all...its just life. However I know how your feeling.
2007-08-06 16:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
For some women it's very difficult to reach orgasm. Try asking her what she thinks would help her reach it. You may be surprised.
2007-08-06 16:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to TalkSexwithSue.com. Most women need a little more than intercourse for orgasm--manual, oral or vibrator stimulation. You can try sex with her on top.
2007-08-06 16:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well cheers to you for caring. I admire that. There are hundreds of website that can show some ideas. Most women need more than penetration to reach climax. (although not many will admit it!)
2007-08-06 16:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by blahblahblah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women have trouble having orgasms, some have them with ease while others may never have them. A bigger penis is more likely to be able to produce an orgasm, maybe your penis is too small...
2007-08-06 16:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
its nothing your doing... alot of women have serious trouble getting to that point.... for example... i can from numerous spots and i am really sensitive in that general region but my best friend isnt her b/f has to use toys or various other methods for her... so its probably not you, just get some toys or they have cream that she can use when applied inside it enlarges her gspot so its alot easier for her to orgasm... good luck and happy riding!!
2007-08-06 16:43:59 · answer #11 · answered by corakay0829 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋