2007-08-06 15:13:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes i have - hurts doesnt it ! had my fingers burned a couple of times , but it makes you stronger - have you had it out with your mate ? Stand your ground and keep smiling.
Only trust someone when theyve earned it :)
2007-08-06 22:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Swan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! I won't bore you with details, but my advice to you is to just sit back and watch. I'm having great fun laughing at the fool formerly known as my friend. She's down ****-creek without a paddle and a rapidly sinking boat. I'm simply sitting on the river bank watching the events unfold; my faith securely restored in the belief that what goes around, comes around.
2007-08-06 17:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Vicsta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I used to have a best friend that was like that and I ended up not wanting to be friends with her because of how she treated everyone including me. She talked about me to all the other friends and she also talked about my other friends to me. I still see her sometimes with other people. I don't know if she's changed.
2007-08-07 05:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by lozzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah!!!!!!! id love to give my ex best friend such a slap!!!!
ill tell u what she did and u can tell me what u think...
a bit of background first: there was 3 of us but me and (lets call her Donna) donna fell out with (lets call her betsy) betsy.
so one day i had a scare.. we were all between 17 and 18 and i told donna that i thought i could have been pregnant without knowing and had a miscarraige cos the nite before i had these god awful pains in my stomach and there was blood later on...
so i went to the doctors the next day and didnt go into school but that nite we were to go out on a school outing to an orchestra for our music exams, and the concert hall was miles away.. so while i wasnt in school betsy and donna somehow arranged to go in to the concert together cos betsy could drive in and donna agreed and left me on my own to make my own way in (knowing what i was goin through).
after the concert i saw donna in the lobby and asked her could i talk to her about what had happened in the doctors and she said "well can u make it quick betsys outside in the car waiting". so i told her what the doc said and she patted me on the shoulder and said "good luck with that" and ran off...
later that nite i saw her in the shopping centre with betsy and another friend and she ignored my boyfriend, walked straight past me, wouldn answer her fone when i rang and when i saw her in the car park she turned her back to the window so she didnt have to look at me... i havent talked to her since...
to this day i still dont know how donna and betsy started talking and i later found out that donna told betsy i had been bitching about her and told her everything i "apparently said" and told her my private problem!!!! then told betsy that the reason me and donna werent tlking was because she was back friends with betsy and i was jealous! wen i was really angry over what donna had done...
im back talking to betsy now but we wouldnt be close we'd txt every 6 months or sumtin like that or if i seen her out id talk to her but i will never talk to donna again....
now isnt that two faced or what!!!!
sorry that was a bit long winded!!!
2007-08-06 23:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not really. With friends it is important to remember that making good friends takes years. Most people (in fact - everyone!) Will have their own interests at heart and not yours, no matter how good a friend they are, and I can count on less than one hand the number of friends I have that I would truly trust.
2007-08-06 17:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yup. I experienced it before when we both in secondary school. We have been friends since we were in kindergarden. However, due to a 'case' in secondary school, we did not talk to each other for few years. He said something really hurt me, but I would like to thank to him because he said those words to me(something like "you are stupid and not smart"), and now I am a smart guy.
We become friends again after few years. Time can cure the wound. Wish you good luck and happy always.
Oh ya, if it is your false, just say SORRY to him/her. It is easy to meet many many friends in our life but hard to find one best friend, please treasure and cherish your friendships.
2007-08-06 15:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OH YEEAAAHHH!!!! She got between me and my fiancee seducing him whilst pretending to be my best friend and 'seducing' me too (in a slightly different way). When he left the country to work she told me I knew where to find her if I wanted to see her, but up till then she'd be over at our place as often as possible! She lied and flirted and looked me in the eye when I asked if something was going on.
I kicked both out on their ar*es!!! Admittedly I tried to patch it up with fiancee, to no avail, trust broken. By her own admission she called herself a 'relationship slayer'.
2007-08-06 16:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by SEJ71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! My advice would be to drop them as fast as you can if you even suspect that they're a horrible friend. You'll be sad over your loss for a little while, but in the end you'll be much better for it.
2007-08-06 15:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yesssssssssssssssssssssssssss, i just hate ppl who are two faced, it makes me furious just thinking about it. You think that they are your friend, when all a sudden they turn their backs on you, and leave you in the cold.
2007-08-06 16:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lovemylifefriendsfamily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it sucked but in most all things move on and don'tn waste another second worrying about it
2007-08-06 15:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by shelischubry 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋