my wife is my life & my best friend....BUt im her worst enemy and her worst friend we have been married for 4 years and i t has been bad lately talk about divorce all the time yelling everyday .... i dont want a divorce but i guess im waiting to see if it can get better ..my down fall are being on the computer alot and yes when i do talk to her i always say i love you i try to kiss her and she says no there is no more passion i feel as she hates me when i dont feel loved by her i look at porn at times but not all the time which is wrong i guess mabey i should look at her playboy magazines ....so she gets pissed i look at it as a live playboy mag ...anyway im wrong for that but she goes to bars and dances with men and her excuss is she likes to dance well at least my porn is not real rubbing up against me any way she went to vegas with her hoochie sister & cousins for 4 days and she said what happends in vegas stays in vegas.....wtf...what do i do?
2007-08-06 23:40:46 · 10 answers · asked by man not loved anymore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to spend more quality time with your wife. Maybe, she's finding you boring and more interested with your computer! You're growing apart. If you don't wanna lose her, find a connection quickly! Try to remember what you did to make her marry you in the first place; trace it and initiate. And stay off the porn and the computer for a while and spend more quality time with your wife for a change. Be the man!
2007-08-06 23:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pröƒé§§ôr♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that sounds bad. you need to have a real face to face serious conversation to see her intentions. does she want to try to make it work, or does she want to be free from you? I am sorry you are going through this, its a horrible thing. Best of luck. I dont believe in divorce, but you have no control on the other persons feelings about it. Honestly, you might be better off without someone that is constantly depreciating you. You deserve to be loved. Best of luck.
2007-08-07 06:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing nothing wrong my friend maybe you should just divorce her but thats just what i feel you should just find a happier housewife one who is loyal to you not one who yells at you and tells'' you what happens in vagas stays in vegas'' you should just pack up and leave then by the time she gets back from vegas she might not care but then again she might care who knows but you should fake that you have left her then find out if she really cares about you or you can pretend that you were spying on her in vegas by saying you hire a investgator a private one then maybe then it might bring something out of her she might tell you that she cheating on you who knows she might care if she was cheating on you.
2007-08-07 06:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by pink floyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you get off the porn and to the dances with her before you lose your wife to some other man.
2007-08-07 06:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys need some counseling and FAST! Rekindle the relationship by only the two of u goin away alone for 3-4 days...
2007-08-07 06:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by a g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better now than later...Move on and forget her. You made a mistake when you married her but it can be fixed. All is not lost and life does go on.
2007-08-07 06:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by marie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really not happy any more then you need yo leave before it gets worse and mean things get said. maybe some time apart is all you guys need to realize you still love each other...............maybe you need to be apart to be happy. only you two can make that decision
2007-08-07 06:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by rahpookathryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a pretty hard situation which anyone could be in
bt i dont know, maybe i think u shuld divorce her, cuz common she's beginin 2 hate u, so give her wat she wants, n jst let go, n maybe wen she sees u nt carin bout her that much anymore, maybe she could cme back 2 u
2007-08-07 06:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have not done wrong convincing your wife is such a good thing to settle your arguement......be patient, hold your temper
2007-08-07 06:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel..then try again..
if she doesnt care, get the divorce..
do you have kids?
2007-08-07 06:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by kim n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋