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2007-08-06 23:44:30 · 17 answers · asked by kim 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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The perfect wife? No such creature.
All you can do is be honest, faithful and try your best. Marriage is a union, not a rivalry.

2007-08-07 00:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1 0

Depends on where you live in this world and who you are, religiously, affected by family influence, acceptance, and culture, and what you do personally.... Some areas and people are free willed enough in the mind to go beyond these factors, others cannot and will not bend their ways/views. It's not a bad thing mind you, just the way some people are.

What is perfect for you will not be perfect for the next. There are so many possible factors... For example, opposites attract, and in most cases, will make a family/couple complete, some opposites are just too "against the grain" and in most cases, just cause conflict.

Some people want to marry their mother, some want nothing close to what they had for a mother. Some want a co-provider in the workplace, some want a stay at home mom.

Again, too many factors to list so in short, there is no magic bullet for "what is the perfect wife" only you will know that. But surprisingly, most husbands find what they think they want and what they get turns out better than they "hoped."

Ok ladies, time for a "What do you think is the most perfect husband?" question! :)

2007-08-07 08:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by avengress 4 · 0 0

You'll only make a perfect wife for him when you know what's his "perfect wife" definition. You can try to match it but remember not to lose your "self".
Also why would you need to become perfect?? 1. It's just not possible. 2. Even if it had been he would have become too bored with it. You get tired of perfection quickly.
Just be yourself and remember that in order to become a happy family one person is never enough. You may try hard but if your partner doesn't join you in your effort all will be useless.
Love is a feeling that needs water for it to grow, so work on it together and be happy.

2007-08-07 07:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You must be a good and lovely wife,we work toward perfection because nobody is perfect,one will make one or two mistake.Be neat and clean everytime,cook a delicious food for him anytime he's around,not a type of food everytime but cook different types of food to encourage him. Make snacks for him to eat,must alway be in the house because anytime he can have a visitor when you are not around and he be able to entertain the visitor.Make sure the house is neat and tidy and keep all the dirty cloth you are not able to wash in a close place that he will not litter the room.Be by his side all the time when he is around and when he go out may sure you call him and tell him sweat and lovely word

2007-08-07 07:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 1 · 0 0

Well if you have a perfect husband then go ahead and try to be "perfect" You can never be perfect but it doesn't hurt to try. Just being understanding and feeding his belly, washing clothes, cleaning house, keeping a nice appearance, not nit picking, being a FRIEND. Those are ways to be a good wife.

2007-08-07 06:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by marie s 4 · 1 0

I'm sorry been there done that and the jerk still crapped on me, this is what 30 years of a so called perfect marriage got me, for some it might work, not in my case, I'm not a Stepford Wife.

2007-08-07 08:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0 0

First understand that men and woman are different.
There is no such thing as the perfect wife.
You can only be the best that you can be.
Communicate
Listen
Praise
Interest
Understanding
These all help to make any relationship better for both people.
Relax and enjoy your husband and marriage.

2007-08-07 07:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by Astro 5 · 0 0

understand yr husband very well , communicate in all ways , do not let a problem last too long
if u both communicate well you will understand each other needs and u will be the perfect couple
good luck

2007-08-07 07:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by stranger 7 · 0 0

Make him feel like he's the perfect husband

2007-08-07 06:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 1 0

A wife to me is a woman that can make me laugh, raise our children, and that I can argue with and not lose respect for one another. If she can cook thats a definite plus!

2007-08-07 07:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by Dario G 2 · 0 0

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