Ok, there is this girl that I was really close with, best friends, for the past 3 years. This year we havn't had any classes together and we've both gone in different directions. I guess we've just grown apart, or at least that's what I feel. I think she's changed, and she probably thinks that I have too. The trouble is, she's bitter. She's being quite rude (talking to my other friends about how she's angry with me etc) We are both a part of a small group of close friends, so we see each other alot still. I can ignore it, but you know, sometimes your nerve gets tested! I'm getting to the point where I don't say much to her. It's not that I ignore her, I just don't ever initiate the conversation anymore. I'm just extremely annoyed... She says I'm stressed... she has no idea! I am far from stressed. She is the one with problems. It's not like we can stop seeing each other. Does anyone have any advice?
2007-08-06 23:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by Curious Me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She just wants your attention since you guys you know don't talk as much as before. I think she also likes you a lot and wants you to see that shes there.Try talking to her like old times and she how she responds. A girl which was a close friend of mine did that to me too. When I didn't talk to her much she got so pissed she gossiped to her group behind my back. Sometimes she would purposely gossip right next to me so I can hear her. Yup some people are like that.
2007-08-06 23:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Closed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had the same the same problem! What you do is when you see her the next time say something like...... You are a really good friend to me and I love hanging out with you... but i have some friends that are getting mad at me for not hanging out with them so maybe we could hang out with other people for a while. Hope you have some luck with that!!!!~ JBLOVER!!!
2016-05-20 04:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would like to be friends again, just text her and ask her why she is mad at you. Tell her that you would like to still be friends.
2007-08-06 23:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds familiar. that is actually her twisted way of saying, literally
how much she misses you. just tell her what you really feel. just the two of u. talk. listen. communicate. gudluck.
2007-08-06 23:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Roxeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell her nicely that she is causing u stress.
2007-08-06 23:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Sleepy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋