Where i work, 3-4 days ago very accidently i and a girl from another department started smiling and saying Hi-Hi and exchanging emails and sending email to each other about Weather,Music,Movies and all that jazz. Nothing more.
She told me she lives with her boyfriend and her 8 years daughter which was completely fine by me. She is 26 and i am 28.
Here comes the happening. Yesterday in the 20th email (she from home, i from work) she asked me something that when i answered i never got any other email from her . Yes, once i answered that question, she did not send me Any other email. And today at work, everything between us was totally stopped, as like we would never even know each other. 100% Cut off. And all these got stopped after i answered her question. Now i tell you her question and what i answered and you please, tell me what you think, why everything stopped from her side after that.
Her question : Who do you live with ?
My answer : I am married and i live with my wife
2007-08-09 03:27:53 · 3 answers · asked by uighi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am married and i did not want to lie to her.
I though we could be like friends. ( Note: she lives with her boyfriend too )
2007-08-09 03:40:51 · update #1
i think she sorta saw something in you- but then found out you were married...ouch...you probly shoulda told her that upfront
2007-08-09 03:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't behaving like friends emailing that often. Married men don't have women friends like that... would you tell your wife how often you were corresponding and would you admit all the content of your letters? You were obviously flirting and then you say you wanted to be friends.
It really sounds like you had intent for more. Just because she is also in a relationship does not make it right. It's obvious that your wife would be jealous. If any woman has any morals at all she's not going to be a home-wrecker and she'd step out immediately BEFORE it ever got to the next step.
First men confide in a woman and vice versa, then it progresses. I'd bet anything she's attractive and you consider her so.
Sorry I said if you can't figure it out you were an idiot.. but I know for a fact you already knew why (because you're answer was you had a wife) and thus you're not an idiot.
Unless you want a divorce or rocky marriage don't get up close to a woman like that, it's dangerous.
2007-08-09 10:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kristy K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL!!!! That'll do it pretty much every time.
2007-08-09 10:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Net Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋