Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

I dated this girl 4 years ago we broke up she got married to someone for three years and was abused physically and mentally. I moved back from hawaii to be with her as I do love her very much. In the course of the last month her divorce was finalized, he still trys to controll her , and to top it off the company she worked for shut down. I am starting to feel like the whipping post. Told me she wanted to be single and I needed to move out ect.. Do you think this will pass as she has a lot of stress going on right now.
I moved back from hawaii to be with her as that is what we both wanted and now all this has happened. I know you said to butt out but do you mean forget about her and move on. I am by far not the salvation I just know what we have had is good and dont wanna throw it away
one day she is realy cool then the next day it is like ww3

2007-08-09 06:18:43 · 19 answers · asked by countryboy237 1 in Marriage & Divorce

girls, when you think your guy is right for you, what do you look for, (apperence, personality etc) when you think of marring him? basically what makes a guy perfect for marriage and having marriage material

2007-08-09 06:17:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

II'm a people person, very personable. I absolutely insist on enjoying life. Not so task-oriented. Not a work horse. If you're looking for a Clydesdale I'm probably not your man. Like I don't live to work, it's more the other way around. I work to live. Is my free spirited nature a mistake?? It has resulted in a fun but lonely life for Rocky Paprocki

2007-08-09 06:17:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been playing the cello for 3 years and I've been taking privte lesson from a cello teacher for about 1 1/2 years. I want to keep playing the cello but I don't want to take lesson any more. I can't say no to my mom because her dream is to see me on a stage. (But hello its not my dream!). I want to start the bass guitar but I don't want to be a disappoitment to my mom. So how do I say"I want to keep playing the cello I just don't want to take lesson any more. I want to start a new insturment" see I can say it online but i just don't want to disappoint my parents.

2007-08-09 06:16:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

opinions out there for girls.....if your guy wants head, would you rather he ask you to do it, or nudge your head down there until you get it that that is what he wants?

2007-08-09 06:15:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 06:15:10 · 6 answers · asked by goody 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-09 06:15:02 · 1 answers · asked by Andreea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

BAckstabbers pretty much alllll of them help me plez!!

2007-08-09 06:14:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-09 06:14:43 · 6 answers · asked by bernadette b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello everyone.

I have a date scheduled for this monday. We are having a "get to know you" date at a bar and meeting under the premise of watching the Eagles game. Normally I would bring along a carnation to a first date, but I am not sure what to do in this case; I am not quite sure about bringing a flower to a bar. I mean if it ends up that I am picking her up it is without a question that she will get one, but if we are meeting at the bar should I do the flower? What other suggetions could you give for a gift for a bar date?

2007-08-09 06:14:15 · 4 answers · asked by Icon 7 in Singles & Dating

get it straight we were never together but i can't tell what u know what the hell should he do but idk cause there's a whole shitload of stuff thats going to get me ****** if i screw u up

2007-08-09 06:14:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 06:13:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my bf and i have been going out like 9 months and weve only gotten to 1st...yup sad aint it...but thats my fault..i want to go farther but when he tries things i find myself backing out and hes ok with it...just not happy but who would be.....were 17 if any of u wouild like to kno that...i have no clue why i a;ways stop him..its just that i do and i cant stop myself from stopping him...any ideas

2007-08-09 06:11:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl i am interested in. I have noticed some signs of attraction from her. She touches my arms alot, we were doing a group activity at camp and she was the first to grab me and always had my hand/hands, and she touched my chest once. She usually does this in public. She stares at me alot and looks away when she notices me looking. We have went and seen movies together and watched movies at my house together. When she and a friend of mine go somewhere i usually end up getting invited. We watched a movie at camp and we were next to each other and she would lay on her side and rub her butt against my leg a couple of times then stop. At first i thought if was just an accident, but she did this act a couple more times. We danced to each other and everytime we talked to each other she would look me in the eyes and laugh or we would get about an inch away from each other. I mentioned how i was feeling depressed, and she did so much to make me talk to her about it.

2007-08-09 06:11:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

cause i want a b/f but im not the prettiest thing in the world. so are there any guys, freshman in highschool, who would go for a girl, but not on her looks?

2007-08-09 06:08:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 06:08:34 · 7 answers · asked by lakers_fan4_life 2 in Family

2007-08-09 06:06:31 · 22 answers · asked by Tha Queen 1 in Singles & Dating

My lawyer drafted it, this lawyer is just reviewing it. What should she expect for a fee(ballpark) like $2k or like $5k or more or less?

2007-08-09 06:06:03 · 18 answers · asked by chese79 1 in Weddings

Well,
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a week and a half and things are going great
But we dont see eachother everyday because we both live in different towns so i usually have to get the bus there or he gets the bus where i live
I dont know if he might dump me or not because i love him like crazy and i keep thinking he'd get bored of me and stuff
Last time we were together he said that i was perfect and im his whole life, and i feel exact the same way,
And i love him terribly, my friend doesnt agree with our relationship, so it kinda makes me scared that she'll lie to him or call him names and he'd end up dumping me because he cant take no more of her bulliness
I told her to not diss him and stuff, and she just kept saying ginger people aint normal because they're ugly [He is ginger by the way]
but i think he is perfect for me, which is why i want to be with him forever
Its getting differcult, how can i make things normal like any other normal people?
Thanks xx

2007-08-09 06:04:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i mean i love both of them but they can't stand each other what sould i do??? anything i do won't work!!!
please help_*.*

2007-08-09 06:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im only average length, just 8 inches but my penis is fat, 6.5 inches around. Where can I get condoms that fit. Ive tried the chemist and everything.

2007-08-09 06:02:09 · 25 answers · asked by mike s 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is the story, my husband and I have been together off and on for about 9 years. In between, I have dated woman. The last time I had a girlfriend, it ended badly. So, I married him, I figured I was in love because, you know, I would always go back to him. But, 6 months now, I am more miserable than I have ever been. I am not sexually attracted to him anymore, and I yearn to be with a woman again. I just don't know what to do. He has been my best friend for years, and, well, I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!

I need serious answers, please, this whole thing is making me sick, literally sick, like hospitalized sick with stress. I would like some advice, and I know, it is MY problem.

MANY THANKS!!!

2007-08-09 06:00:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I just got a new job at a gym for front desk and I have a b/f of 3 1/2 years. Well he is afraid of all the guys will flirt with me and everything but I don't think its a big deal as long as I don't do anything with them. I can actually be a flirt myself because I like to play around with guys cuz its funny. These guys at the gym that hired me are personal trainers and they are very nice and really cute. I dont know if I am going to be able to not flirt back if they ever do with me.. I am a saggi. and that just comes with my nature.. very restless and a tad promiscuous. I am not a hoe by any means I can just flirt sometimes when a guy is very nice to me and I like him back. I know this could be wrong and lead to something unwanted but how do I avoid doing so?

2007-08-09 05:59:49 · 2 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Family

I was getting married in Oct. and the theme was fall in love with a fall theme leaves naked trees and co-co.

2007-08-09 05:59:19 · 6 answers · asked by rayray3rdst 1 in Weddings

Is it ok? My friend wants me to take a shower with him. I am ok with it, but is it ok because i am not gay?

2007-08-09 05:59:17 · 14 answers · asked by ryanwarevc 1 in Friends

My parents divorced when i was 1 year old and they have me under joint custody. Now I am 12 and i want to live with my mom, and not with my dad because he is constantly yelling at me and my baby brother, he yells at my mom and calls her very mean and degrading things, and calls me very mean things, too. I was wondering what the age is that i get a voice in court in milwaukee?

2007-08-09 05:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do guys find physicly attractive?

2007-08-09 05:57:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 05:57:28 · 9 answers · asked by Audrey H 1 in Weddings

I met the guy that I want to marry. But I’ve come to learn from him some distressing news. He has bipolar (which I knew about) and takes medications for it which has led to his inability to have an erection and to bear us a child down the line. What are my options in having a child in the future with him?

2007-08-09 05:54:57 · 34 answers · asked by Meow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

By the way I use tomato juice. Try it....it leaves a wondreful aroma.

2007-08-09 05:49:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce