Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

How many of you have had an attraction to another woman and not acted on it? I trust my husband. I know though, just from things he says, that he has had an attraction to a woman he works with. From time to time they (with a group) have had to go on business trips together. I have always just trusted that he wouldn't do anything though. Am I being niave?

2007-08-09 08:09:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I left my husband 6 months ago because he is an acholic and I thought by me leaving he would change because he said he needed to be alone to sober up.I had to leave because it was starting to affect my daughters lives.Come to find out he never tried to get sober and ended up living with this girl.Now I find out she is pregnant.He is leaving her because he says she is crazy.On Monday he is moving back to my state and says he wants to be all about his kids and he is done with women.My question is,what if turns into the man I always wanted and I fall for him again?Should I just give up on us 100% or should I see what the future holds?My heart tells me to move on cause he has caused so much heartache and now that he has another baby coming with another woman I don't think I could deal with that.Please tell me what you would do?

2007-08-09 08:08:38 · 24 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...while i am at the club with my husband?!?!?

i know the females are gonna say, "YES, that is sooooo disrespectful...blah,blah,blah" but seriously, what's the difference between what i'm doing and guys who go to the strip club (some even go with their partners)??? or when a couple is walking towards me and the guy makes eye contact with me while he is with his girl?!?! no difference right??? =)

i see you guys making eye contact too, and lovin it!

2007-08-09 08:04:20 · 14 answers · asked by **Lil QT** 4 in Singles & Dating

Look i'm not paranoid but my avater look's kinda ugly and i want to change her like i want to change her face if that is aloud can somone please right back?

2007-08-09 08:02:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been attracted to girls for about six years now. i went out with a guy and he made me realize that i was a lesbian. im with a guy now that i am attracted to but im not attracted to any other ones. i am attracted more to girls. has anybody dealt with going from being a lesbian to being bisexual back and forth?

2007-08-09 07:58:53 · 1 answers · asked by baggy22pants 2 in Singles & Dating

Married 13 years... We have had our ups and downs like most couples. Our son is 8 years old. Problem is that my husband comes home and with in 20 minutes of being home goes into the computer room to play and even eats dinner in there at least 3 nites a week. While I cook and clean he plays. first thing in the morning he states "You forgot to dry my uniform last night". Not good morning or anything else. I still have to make his lunch unless I want him to spend 10.00 on lunch daily. Promises to do little chores then days later still undone. He does not understand why I dont feel like sex at the drop of a hat. It is like having an overgrown teenager in the house and when you are living like a parent figure it is impossible to ever have intimate feeling for them. It has gotten to the point that just daily conversations with him make me furious. He refuses to see that I am frustrated and not trying to control him.

2007-08-09 07:55:55 · 24 answers · asked by rfm619 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband works in 3 different offices. One office he only goes into one day a week. The front office receptionist keeps e-mailing my husband @ home about 3 times a week on current events or jokes nothing about office business. Once a month I will see something about office business. I saw a group picture of the office in a ad in the newspaper and she is very cute and about 15 yrs. younger than my husband. Now I find out he has been e-mailing her back with the same stuff like current events & Jokes. I asked my husband if she is married he said, I don't know but she has one small son. When she e-mails its not the office e-mail address its her personal e-mail address. I told my husband this is going to stop because its not fair for him to do this. My question is: Should it stop before it goes futher, or is it ok for them to e-mail each other. Thank-You

2007-08-09 07:49:17 · 41 answers · asked by Annie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy a little over two years ago him and i had an instant connection but the timing was all off(he is friends with my x) so time went by and a year later i called to tell him how i felt,he said it was mutual and he had no idea but he started seeing someone,that was 8 months ago, so he has been with this girl for 9 months now , is that a long time?

2007-08-09 07:48:39 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...so I have two married friends; one is my bestfriend and she is married to someone else and the other is my guy friend and he is married to someone else. My bestfriend and my guy friend just met for the first time and every since they met, which was just a couple of days ago, they can't keep each other out their mouth.

I just found out that they be talking to each other on the phone daily. My guy friend is telling me that they connect so good and that they were talking about sex. And so I asked him if he had the chance would he have sex with her and his answer was "Hell Yeah!". Of course I reminded him he was married and he said that I wouldn't understand because I am not married.

Anyway, they have me in the middle of this whole twisted thing. I have a feeling if they get together, they will most definitley have sex.

What should I do? Should I stay out of it or pretty much be on their a*s*s?

2007-08-09 07:46:33 · 14 answers · asked by Miss. Tee98 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 07:44:29 · 34 answers · asked by Torturing Taylee 2 in Singles & Dating

this question is about a guy who held me one night till i slept.the reason he did comes from a messy story:I dated a guy for a few years and they are mutual friends(guy code#1)i left this guy because i caught him cheating,but my x is also best friends with my brother and my brother is friends with th eguy who held me,so this guy i want (that held me)is freaked about breaking'guy code'and i really like him.what do i do

2007-08-09 07:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone, I am a single again and wonder what are some cool places to hang out at and meet people (women for me) in Jacksonville Florida. Looking for night clubs/bars/social places. Have not been out in a long time and wondering what are some cool places as well as age appropriate for me.

Thanks
Name of Place and description would be nice.

2007-08-09 07:41:11 · 2 answers · asked by harakon 1 in Singles & Dating

you and a long time friend plan a trip two months in advance, this friend and your cousin had this drama that happened like 4-5 years ago, and they don't talk. Your friend (who you planed the trip with) doesn't care about the drama anymore he let it go a long time ago. Now 10 days b-4 the trip your cousin comes up to you and tells you that he wants to go with you, and to cancel on your friend (because your cousin does not want to go if your friend is going to be there). keep in mind that you and your friend made plans first and you both have the days off and are ready to go. what would you do?

2007-08-09 07:34:52 · 21 answers · asked by Ms. Jo 2 in Friends

2007-08-09 07:32:57 · 1 answers · asked by danextbenwallace 1 in Singles & Dating

Even if it's mouldy, she will put it in the kitchen, or hall and available shelf, just not the bin. She says she doesn't want to fill the bin up as she will have to take it out. (I honestly don't mind taking it out she knows that.)
I come home later and say there is a awful smell, so she says you get rid of it if your so bothered. This angers me a lot, latley I have been going round the house and in the fridge just throwing mouldy and broken and used stuff away.
Is there anyway to train a mum that throwing things away is good?
p.s she is not young

2007-08-09 07:30:25 · 6 answers · asked by Loandbehold 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i AM GOING ON A VACATION THIS WEEK TO FLORIDA AND AM VERY SELF CONCIOUS ABOUT MY BODY IN A BATHING SUIT. I HAVE A CUTE TANKIKI BUT I DO HAVE STRECH MARKS ON MY SIDES. I KNOW I AM NOT UGLY BUT I DONT THINK I AM ALL THAT HOT IN A BATHING SUIT. A GUY I HAVE BEEN RECENTKLY TALKING TO IS GOING. DO GUYS REALLY CARE THAT MUCH??? I DONT WANT TO WEAR ONE INFRONT OF HIM BECASUE OF MY FLAWS AND STREtCH MARKS .... also is it not cool for a girl to wear a tankini .. al my other friends wear bikinis and look better than me .. i think ........ ALSO I HAVE A BIG SCAR ON MY BELLY AND THAT IS WHY I WEAR A TANKINI-- my friend is going to and she looks great in a bathing suit

2007-08-09 07:28:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A new guy in our office flirts with me ALL the time and ONLY me eventhough there are lots of single women in the office. Makes me wonder coz I never flirt back and told him I'm not interested with him who has a pregnant gf. Why does he do this?

2007-08-09 07:27:10 · 21 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you find it difficult to communicate with the people in your life that you love the most, and find yourself cutting them out of your life? More specifically, have you had to end a relationship because of it, but couldn't bring yourself to communicate any further with that person even if they were offering support and help?? I've found myself in this situation, and don't know what to do to help him. I'm trying to be a friend to him, but he's not very responsive to me and I don't know if I should leave him be or keep offering support and letting him know I am there so he knows that I haven't abandoned him. I'm just having a hard time trying to figure out his unresponsiveness. He doesn't seem to want anything to do with me

2007-08-09 07:25:24 · 8 answers · asked by dohnnyjepp 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 years old and weigh about 107 pounds. I am also about 5'5". I am thin but not too thin. I am a runner and therfore have built up a sufficent muscle mass. Some guys make fun of my muscles when i wear short short or skirt but i don't knwo if they are joking or not. i don't look like a bodybuilder or anythin, but i am very self concsious about my muscles and i just want to know if i should try and get rid of them, or if guys find it attractive?

2007-08-09 07:20:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have played hockey since i was 5. i am now approaching my senior year in high school. i know i am not going to play hockey in college. i know i want to be an EMT. there is an EMT class that conflicts with the schedule of hockey. my parents knbow i want to take this class but i know they will be very upset if i quit hockey. how do i tell them i do not want to play hockey this year?

2007-08-09 07:20:46 · 7 answers · asked by goalieboy7789 1 in Family

2007-08-09 07:14:59 · 80 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to know the psychological understanding of this question. Why do people seek for love or why do they want to fall in love?

2007-08-09 07:05:33 · 20 answers · asked by ranjana 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 07:02:07 · 32 answers · asked by eoc1000 2 in Singles & Dating

i have only had one boyfriend and i want another but i don't know what they look for in a girl. HELP!!!!

2007-08-09 07:01:56 · 2 answers · asked by megan w 1 in Singles & Dating

Put yourself in this scenareo...

Your gf decides to move where you live to be with you cause you both wanted it, and also for her to see if she could have better luck to find a job where you live.
So she does, moves out with you, and she finds a job and she is happy.
On the other hand she is totally in love with you and even though she has a job where she is happy with she doesnt really care about it as much as she cares about you. For her if you break up she will just go back to her town cause you are and were the main reason why she moved away from home.

Now you are in a situation where you just lost your job, u dont really know what DO YOU WANT exactly and that is giving you a lot of stress. So here you are 31 y/o unemployed, dont really knows what he wants guy with a gf who cares and loves you, who dreams to one day share a life with you, but also wants to see you happy and support you with whatever you want to do, but who desires to know from you whats next
Do you see both of you as a couple, and also you know that if you guys break up she will be gone, but don’t that you don’t really know what do you want yet so all of this is giving you a lot of stress and putting you and your gf in a stressful situation. She feels like she is giving everything and she is being patient to you so she thinks she deserves to know what is going to happen with both of you but she is aware that you are not in the best situation to come with a plan.
So my question here is: Would you be able to break up with her? Or would you start doing things and behaving in a certain way to push her away so she will be the one breaking up? Does this girl should do as much as wants and can to work things out with him, since she really loves him?
And anything else you want to add to this confuse and in love girl…thanx!!

2007-08-09 06:57:45 · 3 answers · asked by aais 3 in Singles & Dating

People say im hot, smart, nice, popular, and athletic but what else do boys like in a girl?

2007-08-09 06:53:06 · 2 answers · asked by Smart_Hotti004066 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for 6 months and known him for 8 years. we have talked about marrage and plan on it when i finish Grad school, in 2 years. I love him so much but didn't know just how much till I Broke up with him!! well i cheated on him 3 weeks ago with my Ex, of whom i have been friends with since day 1 that we broke up. So i was confused did i want to be with my Ex or current... i told my ex about my infedelities. he was extrememly hurt BUT didnt want to loose me. last monday i had a conversation with my current and told him that the reason HIS last relationship didnt work was cause he smothered her like he is smothering me. After our long conversation he then called his EX of whom for the last 6 months always told me how much he hated her and has NEVER talked to her after the break-up conversation., to tell her he was Sorry for his actions while they were together. SO NOW he wants to be Friends with her. I don't know what to think... is he going to leave me for her??????

2007-08-09 06:52:16 · 12 answers · asked by Tea 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 06:50:37 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

How many of you would like to date an asian female? Just curious.

2007-08-09 06:47:37 · 17 answers · asked by pretty asian 5 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy who is friends with my brother and mutual friends with my x, but my brother and x are best friends. I really like this guy,i caught my x cheating,thats why i left him,shortly after i was still hurt and this guy talked to me about it and ended up holding me till i slept one night,not a year later i cant stop thinking of him.he told me he thinks im the most beautiful girl alive and he is freaked about 'guy code'. I really like him.

2007-08-09 06:47:01 · 8 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating