2007-08-09 07:14:59 · 80 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wife knows about the girlfriend and that she is pregnant.
2007-08-09 07:18:42 · update #1
I love both women and I will definitely be there for both of my children.
2007-08-09 07:35:59 · update #2
Neither my wife or girlfriend are happy about the situation. My wife would have left me already if she wasn't pregnant.
2007-08-09 07:47:38 · update #3
Obviously that wasn't a very smart move. This is one reason why you aren't supposed to cheat on your wife. You've gotta come clean, with both of them. (guessing the girlfriend doesn't know about the wife.) Be honest...that's all you can do right now. And please stop cheating...would you like to find out that your wife and your girlfriend are both pregnant by someone else....NOT you?
2007-08-09 07:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by betney109 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is explain your action to your wife that you also got someone else pregnant because eventually she will come to know about it and it would cause too much problem. Whichever the result, deal with the situation and choose which way to go. When your GF give birth, you would probably sneak out with your baby for DNA to prove if thats your baby or not. But don't make a mistake to tell your GF that it's not your pregnancy because, not only would she stress outand pissed off at your but also she would tell to your wife. Better you tell your wife that someone else tell her of your action and work things out with her. The water has already been spilt, nothing else can be changed except you behavior, learn from it, correct it and move on with life
2007-08-09 07:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't know there were guys like you out there...Well, my brother, but he's an ****. Does your girlfriend know about your wife? What does your wife think should be done? I don't see how you can be there for both unless you all live together. My bro ended up leaving his wife. As a single mom she felt she had no choice but to abort. He has since broken up with the gf. His first daughter won't speak to him and took on her step's name. He still sees his daughter from his exgf. I don't think there's going to be an all win outcome this time
2007-08-09 07:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to birth control? You need to tell your wife .... and maybe she will do you a favor by kicking you out to go live with your girlfriend... it has now involved two unborn babies into this mess, which is terrible for the children. I hope that you do not ever repeat this mistake again. Its a pretty low down thing that you have done.
2007-08-09 07:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by mahalga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you need to step up to the plate and take responsibility for your actions! Neither one will be happy that you got the other pregnant and you need to deal with it. You knew what you were doing when you had sex with the g/f and cheated on your wife. I have to feel sorry for your wife...she doesn't deserve such a sorry a** husband like you. and in all honesty, i hope both of them leave your butt!
2007-08-09 07:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, stranger...I suggest you get a second job and enjoy having that opportunity. Cause once the kids are born and the ladies find out the truth...they are gonna cut you to pieces on child support. Then you won't have money to do **** and probably get fat and nasty (like most pigs) and then NO ONE WILL WANT YOU!!! Hope it was all worth it!
Hope you live in a state that is lenient on child support, cause it's a HEAVY consequence.
2007-08-09 07:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by karamell08 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude there isn't much you can do but come clean, unless you feel like living two seperate lives for the rest of your life! But sooner or later your lies will catch up with ya, a little thing called karma! Oh, and invest in some condoms
2007-08-09 07:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by headbang4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now that u mention your wife knows then boi your gona be paying alot of child support so i suggest u get a new job.....im surprise your wife is still with u if she knows,but i guess this just shows how much she loves u and will stick with you through your extra activities
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2007-08-09 07:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start praying for your sins. ( man you are one sinner!)
You should never ask one to abort the child. (don't mess up again)
You should work double pay. ( you are a father to both, afterall)
You should acknowledge your kid with your gf. (it's not his fault)
You should stop cheating. ( You owe your wife big time for hurting her and your gf the respect as a woman)
You must hope that it will get better. ( though I think you don't deserve it I can't judge you easily)
This must be a hard time for you. Goodluck.
2007-08-09 07:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm if u dont desire to pass on Jerry Springer then we could see........U first could fix issues alongside with your spouse. She would on no account recover from this and dont b bowled over if she leaves you severe and dry- i could. U betrayed her believe- loyalty and love all in a single shot. You harm her like noone else ever would desire to my pal. you may seek your coronary heart and soul and choose which one among them you may desire to no longer stay without. Imagin: which one would desire to you no longer stand to work out each and each and standard? it rather is your answer! you may continuously be there for the youngster- visitation besides as baby help. seek your coronary heart deeply because of the fact protecting them the two on the line won't artwork for terribly long in any respect I promise you!
2016-12-11 15:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by miceli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋