Put yourself in this scenareo...
Your gf decides to move where you live to be with you cause you both wanted it, and also for her to see if she could have better luck to find a job where you live.
So she does, moves out with you, and she finds a job and she is happy.
On the other hand she is totally in love with you and even though she has a job where she is happy with she doesnt really care about it as much as she cares about you. For her if you break up she will just go back to her town cause you are and were the main reason why she moved away from home.
Now you are in a situation where you just lost your job, u dont really know what DO YOU WANT exactly and that is giving you a lot of stress. So here you are 31 y/o unemployed, dont really knows what he wants guy with a gf who cares and loves you, who dreams to one day share a life with you, but also wants to see you happy and support you with whatever you want to do, but who desires to know from you whats next
Do you see both of you as a couple, and also you know that if you guys break up she will be gone, but don’t that you don’t really know what do you want yet so all of this is giving you a lot of stress and putting you and your gf in a stressful situation. She feels like she is giving everything and she is being patient to you so she thinks she deserves to know what is going to happen with both of you but she is aware that you are not in the best situation to come with a plan.
So my question here is: Would you be able to break up with her? Or would you start doing things and behaving in a certain way to push her away so she will be the one breaking up? Does this girl should do as much as wants and can to work things out with him, since she really loves him?
And anything else you want to add to this confuse and in love girl…thanx!!
2007-08-09 06:57:45 · 3 answers · asked by aais 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a notebook, a pen, and start writing down the pro's and con's of this relationship. Write down all your thoughts and solutions. Communication from each other would help this situation alot. Talk things out with your other half. Take a sedative and relax. Someone is doing too much worrying over nothing serious. You pick yourself up and do whatever is best for you.
2007-08-09 07:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by mahalga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! De Javu! I can really relate to this. As much as I wanted to help you,but im in this situation also. But I made a terrible mistake and I cant take it back.
I broke up with her thinking that it will never work. But now Im realizing that she's the right person for me. Until now I dont know what to do...She got hurt really bad and she doesnt want to see me or talk to me anymore. Now I dont know how to prove to her that Im willing to change for the better.
2007-08-09 14:09:48 · answer #2 · answered by Pinoy_Pride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety , You never shouild have left home without a ring on your finger ! Return to your roots, if he wants you he will follow ! Home is where the heart is and that is where you will find happiness.
2007-08-09 14:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋