Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

I have met a great guy on the intrernet. We have talked a lot and I want to meet him. I am an adult...45. I am not really afraid to meet him because I am smart about safety. But, is their anyway to truly know about him? I am guessing he could have been making up things but the guy next door could do the same thing. Does what I am saying make any sense?

2007-08-09 09:13:45 · 7 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

OK i went ova my bestfriends house and i took sum advice and told her i liked her bro as a joke welll she diddnt care and i was going to tell her i liked him for real but then at the pool she was like mom quan dont like caitlin dat much cause she always picking on him! I dont mean to pick on him i just think of it as flirtin but i need sum help so HELP PLEASE

2007-08-09 09:13:01 · 24 answers · asked by wifeychic13 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a really pretty friend...and every time we hang out with guys the guys all look at her and not me...why?

2007-08-09 09:12:00 · 27 answers · asked by Rachel Greene 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 09:11:49 · 50 answers · asked by jody b 1 in Weddings

Why is it that some men dont go down on the woman they have been with for years but they want that woman to go down on them?

2007-08-09 09:10:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 09:10:06 · 5 answers · asked by *justalittlediffernt* 2 in Singles & Dating

But he talks to his baby's momma (kid is 16) everyday. He thinks that it's okay for him to deal with his ex but he told me that if I went into (a legit) business with an ex that he would leave me. Does that sound like doubles standards to you? Should I let him leave?

2007-08-09 09:09:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a skater, surfer, kinda girl. i play the drums, and also skim board.

2007-08-09 09:07:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been living with this man for a year now...we've been together for 3.....but he's not going forward with his divorce because he doesn't want to pay for it......He feels that since she is the one that filed then she should pay, but I feel like it's a small price to pay for US to really start our lives together without this over our heads. He says it doesn't matter it's just a piece of paper..."You're my Wife" but somehow none of this feels right to me.....We spend money on SO MANY material things....$2,000 Apple Laptop, $500 XBox 360, 2-3 Video games a month....and now he want's to purchase a $1,500 HDTV....WTF?!?!? Should I just kick his *** out.....has it gotten to a point where I need to hand down an ultimatum??

2007-08-09 09:07:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He said he would do this if I came between he and his buddies, men he didn't care about the before. I am not sure where the insecurity even came from. We had both had a few to many drinks and I had taken a shower and got into my PJ's. Absolutely nothing was going when he said it. He looked me right in the eye and said it very slowly. We had been out with friends and co-workers and I realized we both had probably had too many drinks and went home. He has only known these mean for a couple of months and has never felt drawn to even have a super close relationship with friends or his family. The only thing I have ever seen him care deeply for is me and getting through school. I have two little girls from a previous marriage and I worried about making a decision to leave will affect them. Occasionally, he has gotten angry and stubborn when he was drinking and followed me around, but he has never threatened me. He said he would cut my throat! How incredibly graphic!

2007-08-09 09:05:41 · 19 answers · asked by rarecountrywaterbug 1 in Family

I have three kids, all are five-years-old and under. I feel like I am always the one calling people to make plans, whether it be to hang out or to set up a play date for my kids. Does anyone else feel this way?

2007-08-09 09:05:04 · 3 answers · asked by socmum16 ♪ 5 in Friends

Simple honest question....., but is it really?? Some people never seem satisfied. What can I do for my boyfriend that will make me the best girlfriend he's ever had?

2007-08-09 09:03:41 · 12 answers · asked by luv2bhapi 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy i invited to my party said he'd definatly be there. This was the day before the party.........then he just didn't show up didn't call to tell me he couldn't come.......and hasn't called since to apologize(4 dys ago).................

I'm so upset i've cried my eyes out 45min a day since the party

2007-08-09 09:03:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband recently lost a job that he worshipped. Since then, he has become very controlling. He accuses me of emailing men, he goes thru my cellphone and call the numbers, he complains about the way I do stuff, he calls me sneaky, now he complains about what I wear to work. He is like Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde. One minute we're fine, then the next he's angry about something. Lately he's been clocking me on how long it should take me to get home from work or anywhere else. If I don't answer the phone on the second ring, he get very angry and wonders where I am, if I'm in the shower and he calls, he gets very upset. I told him I was leaving and he threw all of my stuff out of the closet onto the floor. Then he told me the door was open. So I took my chances and left. Now he thinks I'm coming back home. Please tell me what I should do? I don't know if I can take his controlling behavior anymore.

2007-08-09 09:00:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 5'10 and I'm only 14. So far, I've resorted to going out with guys that are older than me and therefore as tall as me, but I'm starting to realize that a lot of my male counterparts aren't nearly as tall as me. So I've been wondering, would you date someone that was taller than you?

2007-08-09 09:00:03 · 4 answers · asked by :) 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay so you have some friends over to play video games and this one guy is always disrespecting you and your pad by being super loud, obnoxious, and just a arrogant prick. If i kick him out and everyone else stays is that right thing to do? whats a good way to go about it because hes a pretty good friend, but i dont like when people come over and act like they own the place!

2007-08-09 08:58:52 · 1 answers · asked by Balrog 2 in Friends

My friend called me today and said that my husband called her early in the morning " trying to come on to her". Me and her have known each other for a while , On the other hand me and my husband just got married July 13th. I am shocked about the news. She even went into detail stating some of the things he said.
She stated that she said " why r u coming on to me , u r married to my friend" she said he replied " soon to be married".. as if we arent married. I find it hard to believe. She even said that he said ..." he been eyeing her for a while now " and " he felt that he should let her know that he was feeling her "..

I called him, after speaking to her.. MIND YOU .. I didnt confront him, as a grown woman I went at the situation the right way, I ASKED him about it. He simply said " she is lying", " she is trying to come in between me and u " he began to yell and use vulgar language. Again as I have stated I am shocked. I dont know who to believe at this moment . PLEASE HELP!

2007-08-09 08:55:56 · 22 answers · asked by Tru_New Orleanian 4 in Marriage & Divorce

do u prefer a pretty/cute girl with no make-up

or a hot, sexy girl with alot of make up? im not talking about an inch or more make-up cuz nobody does that except maybe emo ppl and that's exagerating to say ppl wear that much. im talking about girls that look like sluts with sort of alot of make-up. which do u prefer?


and in highschool, do u go after girls who dress with cleavage and a little skin showing or girls who dress nice and still pretty/cute?



thanks so much for your answer. i want this answer to be taken seriously.

2007-08-09 08:54:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I have been dating my bf for about a year and a half. We have lived togeter for almost a year. We have never ever had a "real" fight. It kind of bothers me because he avoids confrontation at all costs. We only talk about real deep stuff when he's been drinking. I feel like there are parts of his life that I have no idea about, and he wont talk to me about them. Where as, I have nothing to hide from him, if he ask(s)(ed) me anything i would tell him. I feel left in the dark with him. We have tons of fun together, but i dont feel conected with him. What do i do?

2007-08-09 08:53:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 08:53:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-08-09 08:52:42 · 26 answers · asked by Stacy A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 08:52:15 · 6 answers · asked by khariva 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 3 yrs. We have seperate bank accts. My hubby works a lot of overtime and sometimes I wonder what he does with all of the money. He makes good money. I don't know anything about our finances. Lately, it has started to bother me because He wants to know where all of my money goes, but he doesn't share his expenses with me. I want to ask him if we should get a joint account. I would like your input!!! Thanks in advance!!!

2007-08-09 08:51:17 · 15 answers · asked by metalwife 3 in Marriage & Divorce

First they “fool around” each other, then they enjoy “sweet nothings” of each others and “fall” in love each other.Can a wise person "fool around",enjoy"sweet nothings"and "fall" in a pit ---o' o' I mean to say "fall" in love ?

2007-08-09 08:51:09 · 8 answers · asked by tusharcosmic 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 08:49:40 · 2 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Singles & Dating

Been seeing ex for 4 months all be it , i was wrong because hes in a new relationship. Suddenly over night he becomes this depressed man who feels like hes going mad and cant see me no more. because hes got things!!! on his mind. i left wondering what changed over night, has she found out , his he really depressed, what should i do ??

2007-08-09 08:45:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are getting married in the spring and we wanted gerbera daisies at first. But we are trying to spend as little as possible and still make it pretty. We are wanting it to feel and look like an old fashioned country wedding with a small old church and just a few people.

What would be the easiest flowers to grow in pots ourselves that would be ready for cutting in April? Oh, and they have to make a 500 mile trip. lol

2007-08-09 08:45:49 · 10 answers · asked by Someday Soon 2 in Weddings

What can you do when your spouse want to keep in touch with his ex? and the ex wants him back!!! he said it's friend. trying to be nice!

2007-08-09 08:44:47 · 28 answers · asked by Khim P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im turning 11 and i dont know what to ask for when family calls and asks what do u want i say i dont know. any suggetions on some cool gifts;)

2007-08-09 08:43:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was just wondering why my husband hasnt filed for a divorce yet we have been seperated now for goen on 5 months and he knows i do not believe in divorce we do not communicate i put a restraining order on him he had a violent temper and we have no children so guys and gals whats your opinion ty so much and tc jewels

2007-08-09 08:42:03 · 36 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce