I have a really pretty friend...and every time we hang out with guys the guys all look at her and not me...why?
2007-08-09 09:12:00 · 27 answers · asked by Rachel Greene 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL FIRST OF ALL DONT LISTEN TO THE REST OF THESE PEOPLE! AND 2ND OF ALL MAYBE IT'S NOT EXACTLY HER LOOKS THAT ATTRACT THEM....MAYBE YOU'RE NOT PUTTING YOURSELF OUT THERE ENOUGH.......BY THAT I MEAN MAYBE YOU'RE BEING TOO SHY WHEN YOU GO OUT WITH HER...DONT BE INTIMIDATED BY YOUR "PRETTIER" FRIEND AND YOU'RE AFRAID TO BE YOURSELF AROUND HER WHEN YOU ALL GO OUT...B YOURSELF DONT LET HER SCARE AWAY YOUR PERSONALITY HONEY..BECAUSE THAT WILL GET YOU NOWHERE!
HOPE THAT HELPS!!
2007-08-09 09:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by brebre 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may be she attracts more attention for herself thats why!
maybe shes got that sumthing to attract men..............
but that shudnt put u down
u r unique in yr own way and will attract the right kinda guy fr yrself
not all men want to compete and be in queue fr any1
at the end of the day u realise that t was only an external appeal or attraction
if that doesnt work and it still bothers u then maybe u can cut down yr outings where u hv a lot ofguys around
and u just be yr self
and luv yrself very dearly
fr if u dont luv yrself there is no reason why sum1 else shud
everyflower is unique and will find its own special butterfly sitting on it....................
just luv yrself
I already do
2007-08-09 09:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy i know how depraved our minds can sometimes be, its almost instinctive for guys to focus their attention on the most attractive girl in a group. Also probably 80% of all guys will only want to engage in a conversation with a girl if he thinks, even unrealisticly, that he can hook up with her. Or if shes attractive enough that he enjoys looking at her. Very sad but very true
2007-08-09 09:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Eric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is more confident than you? What kind of guys are looking at her? are they the type of guys you would want looking at you? If they are, maybe your friend is just exerting more confidence than you. not *********, mind you, but an air of self worth. If you can achieve a healthy self esteem, a lot of guys are attracted to that, even if you don't rank a 10 in the hotness scale. Best wishes!
2007-08-09 09:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by j c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably has an air of confidence. Men are subconsciously attracted to that.
Do a little eye flirting and im sure you will get some attention too!
2007-08-09 09:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are initially attracted to looks. Try being fun or interested in what they have to say instead.
2007-08-09 09:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they're doin that it means they are more attracted to her than you. Maybe she makes herself look more available like she wants them to look at her. Guess you should just hang out with uglier people.
2007-08-09 09:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make yourself pretty too wear a really short skirt and let your *** hang out a little . you will see how many boys you will attract
2007-08-09 09:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's pretty. You might be pretty too I dont know but it might be that she sends off the "im available" vibe and you send off the "get away from me" vibe without knowing it.
You just have to catch there attention and flirt amensely.
2007-08-09 09:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsam_goindumb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to go alone with dork and added her built. sure a pretty face in nice clothes and nice body....sorry..she will win hands down. Not putting you down, I am sure that you're lovely person yourself. Its what she wear and how she interact with the boys.
2007-08-09 09:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋