Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

I'm a senior in high school and my girlfriend is a junior and her mom just accepted a job at McDonalds. I'm extremely embarrassed because I eat at McDonalds and I don't want my friends to see her and say to me "Haha your stupid girlfriends mom works at mcdonalds".

2007-08-09 11:08:58 · 55 answers · asked by veolapaul 5 in Singles & Dating

right hi i have big problem i am not so good with stuff about weddings neither is my man what are the main things u organise before the event ?
how long should u give urself to prepare?
also am thinking of combining my culture which is scottish and i also want 2 include my mans culture which is african
any help would be usual please

2007-08-09 11:08:01 · 5 answers · asked by mummy of 2gorgeous boys 3 in Weddings

Please help!

2007-08-09 11:06:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in Germany and my husband is American living in CA. We got married there almost 3 years ago. I made up my mind that I want to get divorced and he told me that I should file for it because he's not the one who wants to get divorced, but he's going to sign the papers either way. Well, I thought I had to call an attorney but then someone told me I could just get a clerk. But I'm not sure how to find one online, meaning don't know what to look for, I searched for "divorce clerk" but that doesn't seem to be it. Can someone tell me how to find one?

Oh and for the haters: I didn't married for a greencard, I cancelled the application right after I told him that I want the divorce.

2007-08-09 11:06:03 · 3 answers · asked by The baby penguin 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a recently divorced father who has one young child. He occassionally tells me that he wants to see his mom and cries about it. I tell him that mommy and daddy dont live together anymore and that we both love him very much, but he needs to spend time with both mommy and with daddy. I will not take him to his mom when he does this, I just keep telling him that I love him. It hurts alot, but what am I to do if this keeps happening?

2007-08-09 11:03:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how much younger can a 34yrs old guy girlfriend be? 28? 26? 22?

2007-08-09 11:03:23 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel R 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for almost four years, and I don't believe in divorce, but I am at my wits end.
My husband doesn't love me!! Literally and Figuratively!
He is short with me, distant to me, unaffectionate and almost mean. When we are out in public, he has to be the center of attention - but often does this at the cost of putting me down. Our friends have told him how rude he is, and have told me that I need to move on.
Together we have gone thru some pretty traumatic events in our 5 short years together. His brother died, my Dad died, He is fighting alcoholism (successfully), He has almost been sent to prison for DWI's so that helped straighten the alcohol abuse out.
We have struggled since we met, and I keep thinking that this is what couples do, but now he has pushed me even further away.
I need affection, I need attention, and I need it from HIM. It has been months - literally - months, since we did …well you know.

I miss my husband.

2007-08-09 11:02:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

10 points for honest constructive advice?
met this guy he is 33 i am 26 and he was very interested in me- he came and stopped he lives in london i live in oxford and we got on reall really well. Anyway i went to see him in london and we had another fabulous weeked together he took me to see all the sight, dinner on the river on the saturday and even got my favourite food in and drinks and fillled up his fridge - again we got on really really well

we both have hectic schedules with work- one weekend i had to study for work exams the nest he was away on holiday for 2 weeks and we kept on texting each other, then the following weeked hr had to sort his kitchen- now its the following weekend i have asked him if he wants to come to a bbq and he has said his schedule it too hectice and he needs to do his kitchen yet again- is this just a fob off- i know he rents out his place so he said he has to get tenants in by a certain date or pay the whole morgage himself and where he lives is very expensive?

2007-08-09 11:01:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfreind are back 2gether and its been a couple weeks so far and he NEVER calls me and hes almost never on myspace and he told me not 2 say 'i love you' to much or it will lose its meaning! i thnk thats so wrong! plzz tell me wut this means!

2007-08-09 11:01:02 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I called my husband late at night when he was staying away and he said he was in the motel sleeping. When I got the phone bill, I checked it and the call origination was different than the other times I called him at the motel. I called Verizon and they said that he had to be in the town that the call originated (which wasn't the town that usually comes up when he's at the motel) and they even checked with technical support. My husband says he was at the motel but verizon said there's no possible way. Who do I believe?

2007-08-09 11:00:52 · 15 answers · asked by sundragonjess 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating a woman (15 months now) and we decided to have sex last month. Both were virgins and we have had sex probably 20 times since then. I knew it would hurt her the first time. But it still hurts her, always in the beginning. Last night I gave her over an hour of foreplay, the bedsheets were wet because of her yet it still hurt her. After about 3 or 4 minutes the pain went away and she gradually started to enjoy herself more and more. By the end of it all she was moaning with pleasure and orgasmed more than once. My question is why does it always hurt her in the beginning, we waited so long last night that neither of us could control ourselves once we started. She is a smaller person and I am a good deal larger but I just don't know what to do. I love her but cannot stand sex while its hurting her, I only begin to enjoy it once she starts enjoying it. (By the way, having sex was her idea last night, so I know she wanted to). Can anyone help me? Why does it hurt her at first?

2007-08-09 11:00:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so whenever my bofriend wants to have sex i hesitate and it takes a while for him to make me horny, kinda like im resisting it. well this week i wake up and im very horny, and i wanted him to talk to me so we could..yeah...well he wasnt getting horny cuz he just got off work so i started watching porn...why is this alll happening?

2007-08-09 11:00:41 · 3 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

They can write all their likes and dislikes and guys can simply read them and have full understandings ....
( instead of carrying their manuals , girls could have a weblink)

2007-08-09 11:00:37 · 7 answers · asked by Writer 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I get back with my ex-girlfriend? Beacause she called me asked if i wanted to get back together with her? The thing is I graduated from High School this year! And I probably won't see her anymore! Unless i visti the High School? What do you thing about that?

Please help!

Thanks!

P.S. She also said she has a crush on me again!

P.S. We decided to break up because our ages, I was 17 turning 18 and she was 15 turning 16 at the time!

I know someone who was in the same situation! And when she turned 18 she was back with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend was like in the 20s!

Also, I'm not going to college! But I will be going to a Program called "Futures" and it's only 10 minutes away from the High School!

2007-08-09 11:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by Uncle Bryan | Tío Bryan: Sevant Of Jesus Christ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was hurt emotionally by someone who has the same race as I do. now whenever i saw someone with the same ethnicity, i am scared and I turn them down.

I know I might be making a mistake. i might let love slip away, but i just dont want to go over any dramatic drama again. and i cant seem to get over it.

2007-08-09 10:59:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your faveorite position in the bedroom??

2007-08-09 10:57:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so yesterday was the first time me and my girlfriend foreplayed, my question is... durring the whole time we never stopped kissing, and I was fingering her.. I never knew if she was enoying it, or if I was even doing it right because she never moaned or anything, the only thing I realized is that she was very very wet when I started going down there... that mean anything?? so anyways.. Id like to know some tips for fingering a girl.. thanks..

2007-08-09 10:55:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to get my tongue pierced and I'm interested in hearing what type of judgements and stereotypes I'll have to face.

Not that they'll stope me but I'm just curious.

2007-08-09 10:53:09 · 4 answers · asked by Xena_fire 4 in Singles & Dating

Well yesterday I was with my friends and they cute cute guy whistled at me two times. One of my friend said it was a wolf whistle. I never heard that word before. What is a wolf whistle and are they any other kind of whistles like that. I don't know much about this stuff.

2007-08-09 10:51:25 · 14 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Singles & Dating

There was a promise to only go to these kind of sites together.

2007-08-09 10:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by Christine H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, i'm having a bilingual catholic ceremony so the first reading is in english and the other two in spanish. My fiance's best-man wants to rehearse the reading beforehand. do you know what they are?

2007-08-09 10:51:13 · 5 answers · asked by bride07 1 in Weddings

Can a person seperate their deep emotions/ love from just pure sex? Can you love a person, but be purely sexual with someone else and not love the other person any less?

2007-08-09 10:49:31 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Pip 2 in Singles & Dating

nearly everyday a boy cums up to me and says im hot and askes me out and so even say will u marrie me but i dont know if they r the right type for me and if i should go out with them, so how do u get a right boyfriend and so i still dont have a boyfriend wat do i do, plz help me!

2007-08-09 10:47:44 · 4 answers · asked by sammie 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I get back with my ex-girlfriend? Beacause she called me asked if i wanted to get back together with her? The thing is I graduated from High School this year! And I probably won't see her anymore! Unless i visti the High School? What do you thing about that?

Please help!

Thanks!

P.S. She also said she has a crush on me again!

P.S. We decided to break up because our ages, I was 17 turning 18 and she was 15 turning 16 at the time!

I know someone who was in the same situation! And when she turned 18 she was back with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend was like in the 20s!

2007-08-09 10:47:05 · 20 answers · asked by Uncle Bryan | Tío Bryan: Sevant Of Jesus Christ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 24 years old married have 3 kids. I want to start hunting with my cousin, my wife is opposed to guns and said she would divorce me because she doesnt want the kids to get a hlod of them and get hurt. I told her i would get a combination safe and leave the bullets out of the guns while they were at home. Ive already given up my playstation because she didnt like that i played it every now and again. Is this a way for her to try and control me or something i dont know. My kids will be knowlegeable of what the guns can do, so how else can i convince her to let me get them i am all out of ideas.

2007-08-09 10:44:28 · 19 answers · asked by amr3169 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 10:42:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well,a week ago i went to camp and she was my counselor. I'm 13 and she's 20. She was a really big role model for me,she didn't care what people thought of her,and she was really pretty,even though she didn't realize it.Now that i'm back i think about her all the time and i really want to be with her 24/7 and i want her to like me and know how much she means to me.I don't think i'm 'in love' with her but i'm just wondering why i feel this way.

2007-08-09 10:40:15 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-09 10:38:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and I have been together for almost six months. He just started to work third shift and he sleeps all day so we don't see much of eachother anymore. But I know he still talks to his exs and he never says anything. If for some reason I talk to an ex I will put it out in the open so it doesn't seem like I'm keeping secrets. Am I just being parinoid or could he be unfaithful?

2007-08-09 10:36:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This book will be extremely informative and it contains such powerful techniques that anyone will be able to fool females very easily and take full advantage of them.

Should my friend continue to write such a book , even knowing full well that it can be misused against females ???

2007-08-09 10:34:29 · 8 answers · asked by Writer 1 in Singles & Dating