There was a promise to only go to these kind of sites together.
2007-08-09 10:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by Christine H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it was not just for chatting, he got sexual satisfaction from them through words, cams, sex, as much as you can on-line, even though it was throughly discussed before hand, and the agreement was he would only go there with me.
2007-08-09 11:23:35 · update #1
I see from some of the answers, I didn't put enough details, so here goes. I met my husband on-line, at the very site he goes to behind my back. He knows how I feel, because I know it is real. We discussed the whole subject, and decided we would only go there together. He still doesn't think he cheated, even though he made plans to meet a woman that had made it very clear that she wanted sex from him. My finding out messed that up.
2007-08-09 15:14:51 · update #2
I think you opened a dangerous door by even visiting the sites together. It may be that the attraction is very strong for your husband. I would be very upset but, if he's not talking to just one woman then maybe it's not cheating or if it is it is like a one night stand. Sex but no emotional connection. Talk to him. Sorry for your heartache.
2007-08-09 12:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not cheating cheating is when bodies meet and touch chat rooms is just that your chatting . Talk is cheap and that is all it is talk. Anybody who is that insecure in their marriage is going to have a real problem if something Major does happen.
2007-08-09 11:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely cheating. 100%
2007-08-09 13:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Donna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's cheating per se, but if he's getting deeply involved with someone on there, then there is such a thing as emotional cheating. either way, if you guys promised, he is in the wrong for going behind your back.
2007-08-09 10:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not cheating to chat but you have lied and broke the promise you made that is worse than the chatting chatting is fun and harmless but done 2 other things to be introuble for good luck
2007-08-09 10:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider that cheating. Even more so if you've already discussed it.
2007-08-09 10:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's wrong!!! That's still consider as cheating.
2007-08-09 11:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on the spouse that's going to this kind of chat room's intent. Could be going for ideals on how to please the other spouse.
2007-08-09 10:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel it crosses the line
2007-08-09 10:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by curvygal31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I would call it cheating.
But it is disrespectful and should not be accepted.
2007-08-09 11:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋