2007-08-09 10:42:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
baby penguinwhy did u remove your question? sorry if i offended u but you sounded really simple . it made me think u got married for papers lol
2007-08-09 11:14:40 · update #1
Marriage is the only reason for divorce.
2007-08-09 10:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by *~STEVIE~* *~B~* 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
oh, which time?
the first, I married the ultimate mama's boy. he wouldn't work. I worked two full time jobs, a part time job, and went to school full time while he did NOTHING. we had a child, and he handed our son off to his mother three weeks after he was born, just as soon as I went back to work. made it so that I had to visit my son, not us visit the grandparents. if I was 15 minutes late, he was accusing me of sleeping around. it was just the worst two years of my life. I wasn't allowed to have friends, I wasn't allowed to see my family, I wasn't allowed to hold my baby when I got home from work because he didn't know me because I was busy doing what I had to to support my family. it was pure hell, and I think my mom threw a party the day I left him. (actually, I didn't intend to leave. I got up one morning, went to work, and didn't go home. it's been 7 1/2 years now, and I still haven't been home... lol)
the second, he got really verbally abusive. he never hit me, but he couldn't hold down a job, and it got to where, even when he did have a job, we couldn't pay the bills. (where is all the money? I know we make more than this!) he was heavy into pot, started stopping at the bar every night before coming home, and just not the life I wanted. after we separated (which was supposed to be to figure out where we were going and what we would do about it) I got the cell phone bill in, and realized he had been talking to a stripper. he had her in my house one night when I got in from work, but there were other people there too, and she told me she was married and not interested in my husband, so it didn't really bother me until... I filed for divorce immediately after I got the bill in. less than two years later, he died of AIDS. I don't know many people, other than victims of physical abuse, who can say that their divorce was a true life or death miracle. but mine was!
PS... THANK GOD neither my daugher nor I contracted it from him. thus, the miracle!
2007-08-16 13:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by flgalinms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once the 2 children were born within the first 4 yrs of marriage she became frigid! She faked it for the first 4...
Also she became a real nag and didn't appreciate a real man that was a good father loved his family and provided a good life, college for both children etc.
So after 30 yrs. I finally cut my loses $$$ and married my soul mate and am living happily ever after!
2007-08-17 10:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by maur911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I could. My marriage broke up twenty years ago. I had four young children and a control freak for a husband. There was no divorce in this country then. When we finally voted to amend the constitution to allow divorce, I finally got to divorce my husband. That day in court was worth waiting for, and I actually shook hands with my ex afterwards!
2007-08-09 11:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by marie m 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I never wanted a divorce, she basically threw me out cause i COULDNT get her what she wanted. She is now working on husband #4. Hey, I got a beautiful daughter out of the deal, who I Love more than anything in the world.
2007-08-16 06:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by paul s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married military member...there life when left when I wanted mine to go right...we just both wanted different things and I wasn't up to following him around like a little puppy. I wanted to know where I was going to be in five years and not where ever the hell the military sent us..
I wanted a stable life and I wanted to sit still for longer than six months.
2007-08-15 15:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got divorced the last time because he was very abusive to me and my son and this time I will be getting a divorce because he is not the man I thought he was
2007-08-15 13:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Tania S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time I got a divorce because he was a cheater.. and loved hanging out in clubs... the second time I got a divorce was because he had no work ethics..
2007-08-16 14:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he cheated lied, and was abusive so got divorced had 2 boyfriends in the last 10 years and they were the same, im giving up looking for mr right,
2007-08-10 09:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by ♥**•.¸¸verbalkint♥**•.¸¸ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main reason was my ex husband cheated on me several times. But really we were just two totallly different people. He wanted to go out with friends and do what he wanted to. He liked to frivously spend money. I was a homebody who dedicated my life to our son. I was real tight with money. We just disagreed on everything.
2007-08-16 05:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We got married for all the wrong reasons, and stayed together for 10 long miserable years theinking it would get better, but than I could not take it anymore, and moved on
2007-08-16 14:21:28 · answer #11 · answered by Kathy W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋