how much younger can a 34yrs old guy girlfriend be? 28? 26? 22?
2007-08-09 11:03:23 · 7 answers · asked by Daniel R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the youngest would be 20
2007-08-09 11:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At 34, I'd suggest you not date a girl more than seven years younger than you, with her next birthday being the upcoming year.
Is there a real method to my response? Experience.
As we get older, we get more set in our ways, and we become better established with our lives. We start to put down roots, and we start feeling the need to date or associate with people who are "on the same level". A 27 year old female is just at the point where she's starting to look for lasting relationships with men who have focus, goals, and established lives. You're both hopefully out of school; you're both hopefully working; you've both gotten rid of a reasonable amount of "young adult" baggage, and are less prone to dramatic behavior, hopefully.
You want examples that people believe this: go to Match.com and look at people's profiles, and the age ranges that 34yr old guys want in girls, and that girls below, at, or above 27 want in guys.
Happy dating!
2007-08-09 11:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnieboy34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's 11 years between my boyfriend and I (he's 37 and I'm 26). Go for who you like, who you're attracted to, who makes you happy, who you can be yourself with, who you get along and have fun with, not what her age is. This of course goes without saying - unless she's a minor.
When you have all those things in a relationship age differences really don't matter. Some seem to think there is a limit on the differences (10 years for example). My boyfriend and I are wonderful together and I'm the happiest I have ever been. A friend of mine is with someone who is roughly 25 years her senior and it's the same way for them.
If you find a woman who you truly love and she loves you and there happens to be a larger gap in age so what? It's your relationship between the two of you, not the two of you and everyone else.
2007-08-09 11:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ersabette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say the fact that he never offered the info to you ,you had to ask him says he was hiding this from you although i guess he could of said no to the fact he has another Mrs and child. i think I'd feel used if it was me. hes led you on to believe your the only love in his life then you find out that he's actually been in a relationship for 6+ yrs, think about this poor woman who is alone in Nigeria looking after his child. if he's done this to her after 6+ years do you think 3 months will matter to him? sorry to be blunt but that is the way it is. good luck.
2016-05-18 02:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by jordan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends where you live.....some states require that if she's under 21, you can't be more than 5 yrs older, and some states, if she's 18, she's an adult
2007-08-09 11:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would go with 24 or older. 10 years difference seems to be about the limit.
2007-08-09 11:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer is: how young before they bore you over the long run.
2007-08-09 11:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋