10 points for honest constructive advice?
met this guy he is 33 i am 26 and he was very interested in me- he came and stopped he lives in london i live in oxford and we got on reall really well. Anyway i went to see him in london and we had another fabulous weeked together he took me to see all the sight, dinner on the river on the saturday and even got my favourite food in and drinks and fillled up his fridge - again we got on really really well
we both have hectic schedules with work- one weekend i had to study for work exams the nest he was away on holiday for 2 weeks and we kept on texting each other, then the following weeked hr had to sort his kitchen- now its the following weekend i have asked him if he wants to come to a bbq and he has said his schedule it too hectice and he needs to do his kitchen yet again- is this just a fob off- i know he rents out his place so he said he has to get tenants in by a certain date or pay the whole morgage himself and where he lives is very expensive?
2007-08-09 11:01:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's too early to say. It could be a legitimate reason. Only time will tell. Be patient and see where it goes. The age factor means his life has a lot in it, most likely. Good luck.
2007-08-09 11:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucy I hate to sound suspicious but this fella sounds like he is playing some real games with you. If he has to do so much bloody work on his kitchen why doesn't he have you come down to help him out. Perhaps because he has someone else on the line. The age difference isn't that great and to be 100% honest I live in Canada so am not sure of the distances between your homes. Sorry to sound like such a downer but you might want to confront this man and be straight up with him and ask what's up. Anyone can try and impress another by wining and dining them but in my opinion just sounds unrealistic. Best of luck and hope you are capable of finding out truth and/or able to accomodate each other better if you want to try and make this relationship a success.
2007-08-09 11:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really sound like he's blowing you off. I'm a landlord, and I know how dependent one can become when it comes to having rents paid to pay expenses. I wouldn't trash the relationship over one schedule conflict. If it becomes habit, however, I would take a closer look into it then..... Hope this helps........ Good Luck
2007-08-09 11:09:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone really likes you , I mean really likes you they would make the time to get to see you no matter what .I would not message him for a while, like a week.If he really cares for you ,after the week if he acts like nothing happened then you'll know, But if he says I missed you can we get together soon .then you will know . For me if I liked someone I wouldn't let a day go buy without contacting you and trying to make time to get together.But that's me . Good luck
2007-08-09 11:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Max 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you could do is see if he needs any help and see what he says. I think if he does want your help is interested in you.
2007-08-09 11:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Vinnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋