Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

ok, i know that sounds stupid lol but he keeps dumping waay to much fish food in the tank when he feeds them. i dont know how the fish arnt dead yet
(actually 2 of the frogs we had in there are dead)

the fish tank used to be in his office where he fed them & "took care of them". since they never died he thinks he did good.
the tank that was in his office was MUCH bigger & had a better filter than the one thats in my room now.
my dad is a stubborn pain in the butt & randomly comes in my room 2 feed the fish that ive most likely fed yesterday. he likes the idea that hes taking care of the fish & its because of him (& him alone) that theyre still alive.

ugh... any ideas what i could do? im all out for this one.

2007-08-09 06:46:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi, my dad is going back out with his high school sweet heart and it hasse been about 1 year now . and i try to get along with her but she's alwase putting stuff in her head like last night my brother was grounded so he had to go to bed at 10:30, so he did but he hase a really hard time to fall asleep and its not his fault caus he hase tourette syndrome and he hase bad allergies, so he asked me where his meds were and so i helped him out, gave him his meds and told him to go to sleep. so the next day when she came back from work she started sckreaming at him when i wasent there? i dont no why she never stanrs an argument when im around and im only 14 and my brother is 12. anywase she thought we (me and my brother) were in the basement hagning out!! witch it wasent true,, and she's alwase making things up about us i dont no why we really try to make her feel comfertable , but nothing's working we tryed talking to her but she just makes more stuff up ? hels i dont no what to do anymore.

2007-08-09 06:46:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay, my bf and i broke up which isnt a bad thing, but now hes making me feel guitly and said that i was in my "own little f***ed up world" and that i hide and dont have the guts to stand up for myself. yet he started out by saying "y cant i forget u"

im so confused and pissed and i've already moved on, b/c i started to move on weeks b4 we actually broke up...


???

2007-08-09 06:46:17 · 27 answers · asked by Lydia 2 in Singles & Dating

am al ways dreaming of my husband is cheating on me when i ask him this questions he get mad at me he keep saying that i don't trust him his all ways home where dose he get the tim to cheat on me that his saying do u think i can trust my husband

2007-08-09 06:44:45 · 23 answers · asked by HELIA J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband signed his divorce decree he gave custody to his ex-wife and now he has visitation (weekends, summers and holidays) because he was working the night shift and had nobody to be with the children at night. Quitting his job wasn't an option- he has been with his company for 7 years and children obviously require things that cost money. The children spend a lot of time with us outside of the visitation set up in the decree. We are going to discuss the posibility of joint custody with his ex-wife because now that he and I are married (and the three of us are on good terms) I work during the day and am home at night. However, if she has a problem with this what are our options from a legal stand point? She is a good mother and the children really enjoy spending time with us as well as her. We would like it in a court order just to be safe because you can't ever guess her moods and she tends to sometimes use the children as leverage against us.

2007-08-09 06:44:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 06:43:39 · 3 answers · asked by auntienanny230 3 in Family

She still continues to see this other man. But says she wants her space to decide if we still have a chance to get back together. I told her I forgive her and want her back but she has to get rid of this guy. What do I do? I want her so bad but she said she needs space and time to decide. She will not go to counceling yet. We have kids together and I want to stay for their sake and keep family intact.

2007-08-09 06:43:18 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not just speaking of family, but I am also having an issue of people slandering me (from my former job), my finance's psycho ex-boyfriend threatening me and worrying more about when I am home (or when I'm not) like he's my dad. My fiance and I are both sick of it but we have to handle it very delicately due to their 3 kids they had together. The kids are happier with me because I respect them and I love them. This causes too much stress for all of us and I am at my wits end. I refuse to let anything or ANYONE bust up our relationship we have worked so hard to build the past year and a half.

2007-08-09 06:42:54 · 2 answers · asked by kodsha2004 1 in Family

I'm the kind of person who always falls for cute eyes or such. But that makes me alway's say yes. I'm tired of being dragged around by people but it's so hard for me to say no. And when i do the people around me get very angry. What should i do?

2007-08-09 06:42:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am determined to quit smoking because i can feel it taking its toll on me. I hate the fact that my boyfriend smokes and we are moving in together soon. This has been an issue for us for a long time and I don't know what to do. Everytime I complain he asks me to stop nagging him and let him live his life the way he wants. I am torn between wanting him to be healthy and allowing him to be his own individual. I also hate being around his second hand smoke.

Help!

2007-08-09 06:41:57 · 7 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son will be going off to start college in about a week from today at Carthage College in Wisconsin. I will be having a talk with him before he leaves and i would love to get some ideas for our conversation. I would love to just give him some good gguidance, that may help him focus possitively

2007-08-09 06:40:34 · 5 answers · asked by karrot_2003 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-09 06:39:53 · 20 answers · asked by David A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love her to death, and we both agree that age doesnt matter.. we have so much stuff in common, its unbelievable... i dont think age matters when ur in love...im positive im going to be with her 4ever... we love each other so much..

2007-08-09 06:38:24 · 22 answers · asked by I Am Me 2 in Singles & Dating

Stop trying to push your views on other people. We don't care if you think pre-marital sex is wrong and we don't care if you think that having a small penis doesn't matter (lets be honest people, it matters!). If someone wants to have premarital sex, why do you care? Personally, I think that people should have premarital sex. Why marry someone if you don't know what things are going to be like?? What if they are terrible in bed? It would effect the relationship no matter what you say!

2007-08-09 06:37:19 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 06:35:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have had children and not happy with them the cost isnt much i work but he says no what do i do.. what would u do.

2007-08-09 06:34:05 · 27 answers · asked by Alica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 06:33:36 · 6 answers · asked by Trouble 2 in Singles & Dating

If there wasn't any s3x for anyone do you honestly think that you would even have or get a lifes partner?
How can you curse what brings most couples to intimatcy and relationships?

2007-08-09 06:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by a2z_alterego 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well she does not have big breasts but not but for her age..14..and we have been going out for 5 months...well i go down her shirt just to feel them but she pulls my hand out! where very comfortable with each other and we kiss and do other stuff like touching...but is she just self conshisue? dont put anything down like to young or anything please!!

2007-08-09 06:32:14 · 40 answers · asked by jojo125 1 in Friends

2007-08-09 06:29:29 · 7 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

so my ex broke up with me last week after our four month on-again, off-again relationship. one day we would be fine, then the next he would accuse me of cheating where i would prove to him that's ridiculous (which it was!). now of course there were other snags (him sleeping with someone else when we were broken up for 4 days and then lied about it, etc.) but we continued. we had ups and downs (to extreme levels) yet when it came down to actually calling it off we could never really leave each other. after our most recent (and i believe final) break up he has sent me on an emotional roller coaster with actions such as ignoring me, threatening me, calling me to sleep with him, complementing me (which he never did when we dated), and others things that left me confused. the other day i sent him a message that i forgave him for what he did and wished him happiness, and since then he's tried to contact me twice (i havent responded). what are his intentions? im completely confused.

2007-08-09 06:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm not really kool wit the girl anymore
she did the same thing to her friend and him
she was also a fake friend

2007-08-09 06:27:22 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Friends

what do i do

2007-08-09 06:25:43 · 25 answers · asked by j-v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

can you people help me with this? so, after many posts on answers i haven't really found any good ones to piece together so i'll write it all in one message... ok so i'm in a military family so i move a lot and my friends do the same. so i go to this school where i moved in years ago being tossed around like i was nothing (not physicaly, mentally). the years before that i was liked at my old school. when i moved here no one wanted me but i found a few friends. fast foward to now. so earlier this year i had many friends we were having fun. then a few things came in which is now
1: this annoying person 2 years younger annoyed me to so much because of this one thing that wasn't even bad, the person friends even told me the person over reacted, 2: the year before i was good at sports but now i suck but and i cant play, 3: 80% of my friends moved, the only thing that kept me alive 4:i have memories of the past to hold me, 5 i'm shy but thats because i have no motovation.i'll add more stuff

2007-08-09 06:25:05 · 8 answers · asked by kevrhd92 3 in Friends

So I'm going on a vaccation soon and want to know the logistics of becoming a member of the mile high club.
Where? How to avoid being noticed?

2007-08-09 06:24:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but have no idea what ? she's a real girly girl u knw loves pink lol

not a cheap gift something decent u knw any ideas gr8tly welcomed

thanks

2007-08-09 06:23:55 · 19 answers · asked by angeleyes 2 in Weddings

We are going through a divorce, reason for divorce is my wife had cheated on me and decided to leave. I found this out after she had moved out with our 2 sons, 16 months old and 3 year old. We have a temporary Custody Order where I have kids for 4 nights and she has for 3 nights. I want to come to an agreement and don’t want to fight her in court (its very stressful) if she agrees to this temporary arrangement as a final custody arrangement in Divorce Decree. But she wants me to give her 4 nights and I should have 3 nights and she will not come to a settlement if that demand of hers is not met. She is threatening me that she will fight in court to get full custody if I don’t agree to her demand of 4 nights. I told her we can have exact 50% she refused that too. What my question to you all is “Is it likely that Judge can change temporary custody order in Final Divorce Decree and make her the residential parent”

2007-08-09 06:23:29 · 9 answers · asked by SJ Grewall 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I went to a nightclub recently and ended up talking to some people we had never met before. They were married with kids, like us, so we had much in common. The husband of this new couple was asked my wife, and she said okay. As they were dancing I noticed he had put his hands on her hips as she twirled and eventually was behind her. My wife seemed okay with it which is amazing because she is generally embarassed by these things.

What I didn't tell my wife and what I've wanted to tell her while we have sex is how turned on I was when I saw her dancing with this other guy.

My wife is not bold (sexually)by any measure, she says she has no fantasies or sexual desires, so how can I broach this subject without having her freak out on me? I don't want a threesome or anything, but I want her to understand that this was a turn on. I want her to broaden her sexual horizons, but I can't figure out how to discuss this with her without it becoming a big argument.

2007-08-09 06:23:25 · 9 answers · asked by finster115 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can a relationship like that work??? look at heff and the girls... holly kendra and bridget.... and there are other cases too... what about islam??? they can have 4 wives under certain stipulations... what do you think.

2007-08-09 06:22:25 · 34 answers · asked by Aaliyah J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that nobody can make you not cheat or make you want to stay married, but what things can your wife do to keep the relationship going positively and make you enjoy being married to her?

2007-08-09 06:20:09 · 23 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce