i love her to death, and we both agree that age doesnt matter.. we have so much stuff in common, its unbelievable... i dont think age matters when ur in love...im positive im going to be with her 4ever... we love each other so much..
2007-08-09 06:38:24 · 22 answers · asked by I Am Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was just wondering what yall thought but age difference?
2007-08-09 06:54:28 · update #1
my friends uncle is 8 yrs younger then his wife...and yes there married.. so technically. relationships like kthis do work out...Dont yall agree?
2007-08-09 07:11:03 · update #2
umm...whats the question here? if you love her and she loves you great. congratulations.
2007-08-09 06:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you might not want to date her anymore. What kinda 21yr old girl dates a 16 yr old boy. There are a lot of thins you learn about maturity , responsibility and independence in those years between 16 and 21. I'm sure your are very nice but why would a mature mentally health 21yr old wont with a high school student? Which leads me to believe their is something wrong with her. and you should date some one in your own age range for now. until you are older and have some more experiences with the real world under your belt.
2007-08-09 06:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is possible between two people of such age difference, but she could get into trouble with the new laws on statutory rape. And you are being deprived of being with some one closer to your age and maturity level, which in the long run could be very important. And you might want to think about this, why is she not with another adult?
2007-08-09 06:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is grand, isn't it?
If you have had any intimate contact, do you realize that what your 21 year old girlfriend is doing is illegal? Charges could be brought against her and she could face possible jail time.
Would you be able to bail her out of jail? Would you be able to withstand the ridicule of your community?
You need to take a hard look at reality. I know age does not matter, however, in our society today, she can be prosecuted.
2007-08-09 06:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Diana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just by that answer i can tell you....this wont last.you are only 16 ,get real...plenty more fish in the sea.you just got lucky,but sooner or later shes going to want a man that can provide,and protect..and sooner or later you will find someone else you THINK you are in love with.but hey,enjoy the ride.what does your mother think of this?ya know,she can put the molester in jail,i would be talking about your girlfriend.in America its illegal to sleep with children and that's exactly what is going on.
2007-08-09 06:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by sleepy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok you're right age doesn't matter...but on the other hand if someone wanted to get ur g/f in trouble they probably could. So just be careful....according to law in most places ur underage she's not. I am happy for u though....good luck
2007-08-09 06:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... there is a BIG thing that matters. You are minor, she is an adult. If anything is to happen to you, she will be accused of contributing to the delinquency of a minor, or worse, sexual predator. Think about that.
Yes, age does not matter, PROVIDED you are both at the age of consent.
2007-08-09 06:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i feel kinda bad saying this b/c i was in this same situation a while ago.
when i was 16 i had a crush on a 20 year old girl but it's just not right. you should wait until you're 18 until you date anyone older than 18.
2007-08-09 07:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young and think you have a clue about such things and she is a child predator. Sorry, but she should be in jail and you should be in school. You've no idea about forever. For goodness sakes, you type it 4ever.
You may think age doesn't matter, but the law does. She will end up in jail.
2007-08-09 06:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it does not matter at all! as long as you love each other then age does not matter. Plus, who cares about what other people think, you are not doing anything bad or hurting anybody. SO ITS ALL GOOD!
But, I'm doubtful that this will last long, just be ready for anything that might happen
2007-08-09 07:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by rejy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you know it's illegal for an adult to date a minor child?
just thought you might want to be informed.
i think that any 21 year old girl who can't relate to a guy in her own age bracket has issues. but good luck anyway
take care.
2007-08-09 06:42:26 · answer #11 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋