hi, my dad is going back out with his high school sweet heart and it hasse been about 1 year now . and i try to get along with her but she's alwase putting stuff in her head like last night my brother was grounded so he had to go to bed at 10:30, so he did but he hase a really hard time to fall asleep and its not his fault caus he hase tourette syndrome and he hase bad allergies, so he asked me where his meds were and so i helped him out, gave him his meds and told him to go to sleep. so the next day when she came back from work she started sckreaming at him when i wasent there? i dont no why she never stanrs an argument when im around and im only 14 and my brother is 12. anywase she thought we (me and my brother) were in the basement hagning out!! witch it wasent true,, and she's alwase making things up about us i dont no why we really try to make her feel comfertable , but nothing's working we tryed talking to her but she just makes more stuff up ? hels i dont no what to do anymore.
2007-08-09 06:46:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well, if it were me, i'd would ask her if she'd take a few moments to listen, and then i'd CALMLY talk with her.....
you could let her know that while you appreciate the fact she is concerned, you are not used to screaming and yelling... and that it is frightening. tell her it's easier to understand her when she talks normally.
ask her what you can do to gain her trust. let her know that you are disappointed because she doesn't believe you when you tell her the truth.
it can't get much clearer than that, hon.
it's difficult to mix families... i feel for you.
2007-08-09 06:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your Father when all of this is going on? He needs to know what is happening and talk with his girlfriend and you and your brother at the same time. There is such a thing as Child Protective Services to help kids like you. When you go back to school, ask for help.
2007-08-09 07:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like she don't like your brother and she is just finding things to start stuff.You need to tell her you going to get her some help from some one older than you because your brother don't need to be treated wrong for things he did not do.And let her know that he need to be treated right and if he do something wrong then he need to be punish for that and not just anything.
2007-08-09 06:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a hard situation to be in.
Do you have another trusted adult - a teacher, a scout leader, etc. that you can talk to? They may be able to help you sort through things, or get you to someone who can help.
2007-08-09 07:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by stenobrachius 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋