so my ex broke up with me last week after our four month on-again, off-again relationship. one day we would be fine, then the next he would accuse me of cheating where i would prove to him that's ridiculous (which it was!). now of course there were other snags (him sleeping with someone else when we were broken up for 4 days and then lied about it, etc.) but we continued. we had ups and downs (to extreme levels) yet when it came down to actually calling it off we could never really leave each other. after our most recent (and i believe final) break up he has sent me on an emotional roller coaster with actions such as ignoring me, threatening me, calling me to sleep with him, complementing me (which he never did when we dated), and others things that left me confused. the other day i sent him a message that i forgave him for what he did and wished him happiness, and since then he's tried to contact me twice (i havent responded). what are his intentions? im completely confused.
2007-08-09 06:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes we are attracted to toxic people and find them totally irresistable, even when we know the relationship isn't good at all.
many times this behavior and a habit of selecting partners like this is a direct result of our pasts....
i think your ex's intentions are to rile you up. you're doing the right thing by ignoring him.
and if you care about yourself at all, you won't start seeing him again.
2007-08-09 06:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His intentions are to get you back. What else? But you are too smart to waste your time, I am sure. Nothing will change. Nothing will get better. You are best off just ignoring his attempts to control you and moving on with your life. Sending him the message was a bad idea, too. You basically gave him hope and the impression that you might still be interested. Let him go. Stop talking to him. Then BOTH of you will be able to move on and find someone more compatible. Good luck!
2007-08-09 13:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow yourself to be treated this way, he is certain he can always get you back, ask yourself, what is my future going to be with him, I am sure you will find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
2007-08-09 13:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants a piece of ***. Its kinda like burning bridges. He doesnt want to burn this one because maybe you will put out for him when hes lonely.
2007-08-09 13:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by wheelsup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesnt know what he wants. id move on to something better
2007-08-09 13:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't know what the hell he wants. let him go and find someone better then the *** your describing
2007-08-09 13:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by cutething 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh, i like scrabble.
2007-08-09 13:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by shoefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a psycho
2007-08-09 13:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Monique449 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋