my girlfriend and her breasts?

Question

well she does not have big breasts but not but for her age..14..and we have been going out for 5 months...well i go down her shirt just to feel them but she pulls my hand out! where very comfortable with each other and we kiss and do other stuff like touching...but is she just self conshisue? dont put anything down like to young or anything please!!

Answer 1

"is she just self conshisue?"

That was the worst mangling of an English word I've ever seen.

Answer 2

Doesn't matter how old or what size the breasts are. Women will always be self conscious. Some women don't like their breasts being touched, sometimes due to sensitivity (it may fluctuate throughout her monthly cycle). That's just something you're going to have to learn to deal with. Hopefully, you will end up with a woman who can't get enough breast action and will always love for you to be underneath her shirt. These types of women do exist, but there's so much more to a woman than how she feels about her breasts.

Answer 3

Well what I Would say is that maybe she does not feel comfortable yet for you touching her there because she may think that you are trying to get her to go further by having sexual intercourse. You should have a conversation with her letting her know how you feel about her and how far you want to go with her. She may let you know that you are going to far and that maybe you should slow down a little. You can still show her affection. Does she go down your pants or anything? If she does maybe she has an issue with her breasts and she does not think of them the way you would like her to. Don't think that you are the problem because your definitely not.

Answer 4

If she doesn't want you to touch her breasts, don't. It's her body and she has a right to that decision. It could be that she really doesn't feel comfortable with her body or it could just be that some girls don't find it all that sexy to be felt up. Also, keep in mind that when a woman is about to have her period, her breasts are probably very sensitive and sore. It's the horomones.

Answer 5

Even though you two are comfortable with each other, she doesn't feel that it's okay to feel her breasts just like that. In other words, she may consider that as sexual behavior and she wants to wait until you two are both ready for sexual intercourse to feel her breasts like that. She may even feel uncomfortable with you wanting to feel them at the moment. No, she isn't too young, but maybe she's just not ready for you to get all "touchy-feely" like that. It's not a bad thing, but don't question her why she takes your hand out of her shirt. If she questions you, then she may expect you to come up with a good answer. Maybe you just have to wait for the right moment, place and time for that.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Besides being self conscious.... her breasts could and likely are very sensitive. She probably gets feelings she's not used to when you touch or rub them. Give her space. Give her time... eventually she'll get used to that feeling. Also, that can be viewed as a step closer to sex. And especially if that's a forbidden territory for the two of you right now... (as it should be.. lol) ... then that feeling it may be giving her may be to much for her.

For example (Lord forgive me if your to young to hear this), mine are so extremely sensitive that I can ALMOST climax with stimulation of them alone. They are THAT sensitive. So, if hers are ... then... well, that may be an overwhelming feeling that she just may not be ready for.

My personal suggestion is that if you and her are that close to be fooling around... then you should feel comfortable enough to discuss this with her. Ask her why she pushes you away. Don't be pushy with her. Give her plenty of room and understanding. Don't do it again until she says it's okay.

Good luck and God bless you

Answer 7

Well.... other than being too young to be physically involved, there is a truth that you are missing.

Everybody has boundaries that he/she doesn't want anyone else to go into. This can be physical or emotional. Other person has no business breaking this boundary or asking why.

Obviously, your friend does not want to be touched there. Respect her wishes. Having a close friend is about caring, not being able to touch everywhere.

I am sure, you have something like that, either physical or emotional. Same thing!

Answer 8

Remember. It is her body. If she doesn't feel comfortable that is her problem and u should respect that. She might be self conscious. She is still developing at the age. Believe it or not some girls just don't like their breast to be touched.

Answer 9

Could be she is uncomfortable with how she feels when you do that. Considering the fact that she is only 14, she may not be aware of how she should handle that type of situation. Have you asked her why? That might be a good start. However, I also must tell you that 14 is young, but, I do understand the curiosity. Please try not to go any further. But, if that fails, make sure there is protection. There is enough unwanted pregnancies among teenage girls.

Answer 10

I WOULD HAVE 2 SAY YES THATS PROBABLY WHAT IT IS BECAUSE OF THE AMOUNT OF TIME THAT YALL HAVE BEEN TOGETHER ...IT MIGHT JUS TAKE A LITTLE WHILE BUT SHE WILL START TO GET USE TO THAT TYPE OF STUFF... OR MAYB IT'S JUS SHE MIGHT NOT WANT U TOUCHING THEM BECAUSE THEY AREN'T BIG AN SHE THINK U WON'T LIK THAT AND BREAK UP WIT HER FOR SOMEONE WHO HAS BIGGER BREAST ... U GOTTA LET HER KNO (if u love her)SIZE DOESN'T ALWAYS MATTER ;)

Answer 11

She may be shy and/or not ready to be that intimate yet... and that's totally normal for a 14 year old girl, no matter how big her boobs are. Just please don't pressure her to do anything she's uncomfortable with or that she may regret later. When she's read to get to that step, she'll probably let you know (maybe she will grab your hand and place it there herself.)