2007-08-09 06:29:29 · 7 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had no idea he had someone, I used to go to this bar he worked at, he went crazy for me, the moment I walked in he'd have my drink ready by the time I was at the shank and he always made a fuss and pushed people out of the way...
We had these crazy fun conversations, then one night I notice this chick following him around like crazy, my friends all laughed look at her all fat and short and I thought she just liked him too. Then one day when he changed his hair color and I asked him about it he was like oh my girlfriend picked the color, you know the girl that follows me around sometimes.
Oh the shock that came, he was falling in love with me it was so obvious, and everyone, my friends and including some of his knew it.
I felt sorry for the girl to do something like this so I left this friendship.
He kept on asking me why, but when I saw how crazy she was for him I knew it was wrong... Why ruin a relationship of 2 years!!! 2 years is pretty big... He almost left her for me but something inside told me it was wrong to do so...
2007-08-09 06:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by ██████████ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. but I know for sure that most of the time it fires back... If she could do it with the first guy, how easily can she do it to you too?... Don't try to ruin a relationship even if it's in a bad shape. Let her choose on her own without any force... Then when both of you are emotionally ready try dating. That way you won't be worried that if someone else comes along he could make her choose him over you... Goodluck.
2007-08-09 13:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Smile2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and we're still in OUR relationship a year and a half after he left her. They were NOT meant to be and he wasted alot of good years staying with her and I did the same with my EX. Hope al works out for you and you make the right decision. God Bless ! Its a rough road while it takes place but it will slowly smooth over eventually. If he loves you and NO small children are involved he'll do the right thing.
2007-08-09 13:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have met someone and he was really nice but once he told me that he have someone in his life is was automatically over. I figured if he's actively messing around who's to say he would not do the same to me.
2007-08-09 13:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by pradavee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have had my ex boyfriend he was kissing his ex girlfriend and he thought of me the whole time and he was gonna break up with her for me. and it causes a big fight
2007-08-09 13:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by fieldhockeygul20 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have..with this one guy but after a while i realize that he only wanted sex from me so i changed my number
2007-08-09 13:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by jessica s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe i can force a person to date me if they don't want to.
2007-08-09 13:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋