2007-08-09 06:39:53 · 20 answers · asked by David A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LISTEN UP!, Just because I asked this question doesn't mean I am doing it? It's called a rhetorical question.
2007-08-09 06:45:37 · update #1
Umm...no.
It's called cheating and being unfaithful.
Get a divorce if you want to sleep other people.
2007-08-09 06:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think about it, no it wouldn't help your marriage in the least. I mean think of all the STDs and crap you would be bringing back to your partner and that be like slowly killing each other when you do have sex with them. And besides that what if you or your partner either got someone pregnant by another person? Too many emotional and physical boundaries that would be crossed here. And besides having your cake and eatting it too isn't always healthy for everyone and can lead to more issues.
P.S. I was using "you" in the most general sense of the word. :)
2007-08-09 15:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! It would just bring more complications into the marriage, not to mention that now you have more than one persons feelings to deal with, you've got several. And wouldn't it be degrading to the spouse, possibly bringing home diseases, and calling out a slew of names while making love?! Not to mention how you cheapen the person you sleep with outside of marriage, because they can't mean that much to you because you have a spouse at home. And what about unplanned/accidental pregnancies? And we won't even mention what this would do to any children you may have, messing up their poor little psyches!!
2007-08-09 13:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you married? I think that if it were mutual, it might work. You have to have a very mature relationship with your partner to be able to make it work, no secrets. If your marriage is already in trouble, this is not going to make it better. Marriage shouldnt be based on sex, but on your relationship as a whole. There are groups of people, called swingers, who have this sort of relationship. Depending on your situation, you may want to check that out.
2007-08-09 13:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by Athena 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. It would only prove that the spouse allowing it has an extremely bad self image and fears rejection at any cost to herself or himself. ... and the spouse taking advantage of such an allowance of creepiness.. is also a person who is extremely immature and narcissistic. ( both those words are intimately related )
I suggest extensive counseling, both together and both apart with the same counselor.
2007-08-09 13:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by jokerthefreak1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way. sleeping around can only hurt a marriage. A marriage is between two people, when you bring someone else into it it will have problems
2007-08-09 13:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Cassey G 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you mean extramarital sex, then I would say that it would create more problems than what was already there, if you're talking about shopping around for a good matress/playground, then yes, we're "sleeping around."
2007-08-09 13:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. I love and respect my husband way too much to even think about being with another man. Nothing good ever comes from being with someone other than your spouse.
2007-08-09 13:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by 1hotmama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just asked a question that has the merit of "*going to war for peace is like *ucking for virginity"
If you don't see the lack of logic, nobody can help you.
I feel sorry for your wife.
2007-08-09 13:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
This question deserves some kind of Lunacy Award.
2007-08-09 13:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by {}Chris{} 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋