am al ways dreaming of my husband is cheating on me when i ask him this questions he get mad at me he keep saying that i don't trust him his all ways home where dose he get the tim to cheat on me that his saying do u think i can trust my husband
2007-08-09 06:44:45 · 23 answers · asked by HELIA J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That means YOU don't trust him. It has nothing to do with him at all. I don't know where your distrust is coming from. Maybe he is showing the sign of something or you are simply imagining things. It really doesn't matter.
Obviously, you have a lot to work though. Might you want to consider marriage counselling?
2007-08-09 06:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would seem as though you are letting your dreams take over how much you trust your husband. It's easy to fall into traps like this.
The dream also probably shows that part of you has some kind of insecurity with youself and that subconciously you may be thinking if you are enough for him.
Again it could be showing your worst fears. Badgering him about the dream you are having will only drive him away...maybe into a bar and into the arms of a stranger.
Don't let this dream take hold of you and try to forget about it. If you don't it will only bother you more and more.
2007-08-09 06:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tombie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we dream of things that's on our minds so maybe you have been thinking about the possibility that he is cheating and if you were thinking it then you have to ask yourself if he is a player or does he respects you. My boyfriend is a very sweet guy and he speaks to women right in front of me and even though he does not think of those women in that way it still bothers me; I trust him. You have to weigh it like pros and cons- make a list of his qualities that would either make him a cheater are not and see if he has more cheating qualities or not. Hopefully he is not a cheater and that he is a loving husband but from now on just watch him more closely but don't get paranoid. A good marriage is built on trust so learn to trust him unless you have good reasons not to.
2007-08-09 07:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by nemaus1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it ability you ate some incredibly undesirable pizza before mattress, you have been looking at waaaayy too plenty Lifetime television or better than in all probability you're having lack of self belief themes. Do oyu recognize somebody who is going by something like this with infidelity? have you ever been looking at video clips or televison shows the place this could be a ordinary topic? I used to have objectives like that plenty, i did not understand for a on an identical time as that I have been looking at a superb type of television and this replaced right into a topic in a superb type of the shows and action pictures i replaced into seeing. What you divulge your self to 'feeds' your concepts and vegetation seeds of lack of self belief or despite the themes are and with out you even determining it your concepts will start to play out, the two on an identical time as waking or sound asleep, situations that make no logical experience. additionally, how long have you ever been jointly. have you ever had a foul adventure interior the previous that would reason you to start feeling insecure at a definite ingredient on your courting?
2016-12-15 10:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now, i'm not an expert on dreams by any means, but this could be your insecurity at a subconscious level. so, why do you have this insecurity? do you at some level have reason to believe that he cheats? you did say one thing that makes me think there is something up, and that is the fact that he gets so defensive. if you really want to make sure if he is or isn't, go on google and find spy equipment. they have one's that monitor phones and even internet activity. perhaps even setup a small camera in your house...see what he does all day.
2007-08-09 06:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that maybe you are a little insecure and you don't trust your husband. I don't know what your relationship is like but I don't think you should pay much attention to your dreams. That's just what they are...dreams, they're not reality. We can't control our dreams and don't know why we dream some of the things we dream about. I don't think you have anything to worry about.
2007-08-09 07:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by Shelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a dream. Don't get to thinking he will because of it. Dreams are your subconscious..maybe you already had insecurities about it and it came through in a dream?
I got a couple dreams like that as well, but I know my husband loves me and he despises cheaters as well and would never do it to me. Just talk to your husband about them and let him know you trust him. You don't need to push him away because of a dream you had.
2007-08-09 06:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you had a dream.
If I were hubby I’d be upset too if you accused me/suspected me of cheating merely on the basis of a dream.
IF the dream means anything, it means that *you* have a problem trusting him. So if that's the case, then why don't you trust him?
2007-08-09 07:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your sub- conscious either playing with you or deep inside you really don't trust him. If it keeps on bothering you, then try talking it out with a friend. Try suggesting ideas to go out on date nights or something like that to your husband. It may also strengthen your relationship with him, and ease your worries.
2007-08-09 06:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just means you fear him chaeting or you are insecure and you DONT trust him subconciously. If you trusted him completely, your subconcious wouldn't bring this to mind. However you may still fear this happening. It depends on the context of the dream.
You can trust him. Dreams are not premonitions.
2007-08-09 06:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by Sean C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋