Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

I have heard different opinions concerning this issue.

If you are a heavy marijuana user, can it effect your sex life both mentally and physically?

2007-08-09 08:40:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay well my most recent boyfriend keeps in touch with his ex gf's a lot. He's open to me about it, and we've talked about it and he says the only reason he still talks to them is that he still cares for them like a friend. His first gf for example was his first love and he contacts her occasionaly just to say hi or whatnot. I don't keep in contact with my ex bf's because they are called "ex" for a reason. So I have a hard time understanding. Should I be worried or not? What's your opinion on this..? Why would you want to keep in touch with your ex..isn't it over?

2007-08-09 08:39:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Basically, the short version of the story is that my husband is incredible and loving...when he's not having a tantrum. But when he gets stressed, and gets so angry he has been known to break things, yell, rage, and be verbally abusive. This has been going on in a cycle for a few years...but I never thought it was that bad because all the other times besides when he was angry he was great. When he's calm he tells me he knows he has a problem with anger. A week ago he had another rage and I lost it. I packed my things, and headed for my mothers. We have agreed to stay apart for 6 months, get individual therapy and see what happens. He's moving into a friends and I'm going back to our place when he's finally moved out. We have only spoken to talk about bills we owe, etc. Sometimes he calls when he's really sad and I feel terrible. I took the animals with me which he loves and he says he misses them so much. He keeps using my nicknames. I feel horrible about the whole thing. Am I wrong?

2007-08-09 08:38:28 · 23 answers · asked by Marisa M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married immediately after graduating college at the age of 23. I was always a wild man, and I enjoyed cavorting with my friends. I met my wife as a sophomore in college and quickly fell in love. I cheated several times regrettably, but only in a one-night-stand. We got married and moved so I could start medical school. Everything seemed great. I was still sexually attracted to other women, but never cheated, alcohol or not. After my first year of school, I went away for the summer to do military training and I met and made friends with another woman, a medical student also in the military. We only hung out on occasion. Despite partying like a rock star with my military peers during the training, I did not cheat on my loving wife at home. I returned and finished a year of school, and then I met that girl again randomly on a school event...the mutual attraction was obvious. We fell for each other. She has a boyfriend of 3 years with intent to marry...we are both confused

2007-08-09 08:36:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been arguing a lot lately. I'm about to go pick him up from work and he has been working very hard today (and everyday) outside in 100 degree weather. What creative things can I do to really say "I love you," and let's stop arguing so much?

2007-08-09 08:35:07 · 47 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've just started the 11th grade, and I'm a little nervous for one reason. Last year i hooked up with my geometry teacher several times and he's MARRIED. The worst part is, i have his WIFE for pre-calculus. HELP ME! What do i do?

2007-08-09 08:35:06 · 29 answers · asked by kookykoo 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and a virgin....I really want a steady relationship...yet all I get are guys who want a hit and run....I am not judging I know this for a fact because they ask me for it. I really want a down to earth gentlemen one who is willing to be in a relationship. Why can't I find this...am I doing something wrong......how can I get what I want?

2007-08-09 08:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am pretty well off and enjoy my single life. I have lived with women in the past and it wasn't for me....I don't want or really like kids. And I also don't believe want I earned financially should be put at risk. No, prenups are not iron clad either....So why on earth would I ever want to marry?

2007-08-09 08:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is oral sex so important in a relationship?

Why do men sometimes prefer getting "head" to intercourse?? And what makes a woman "good" in
ur opinion??

2007-08-09 08:32:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it more import ant for each person in a marriage to be happy, or is it more important for each person to be committed?

Both are important, but which is more important?

2007-08-09 08:29:15 · 41 answers · asked by Nappy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 08:27:46 · 28 answers · asked by Brad Jordan 1 in Singles & Dating

if he were to get in an accident and it turns out he loses alot of brain functions making him/her basically mentally challenged would you stay with them?

or like on that show maury where that guy had sever cancer in his face and they had to carve it out so he has no face, cant see or talk(maybe hearing is good still im not sure) would you stay with him like his wife did?

2007-08-09 08:27:37 · 20 answers · asked by mannyg2199 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 08:27:16 · 22 answers · asked by wendywoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i am 16 years old and today i got into with my auntie's babydaddy because i got smart with a 5 year old and he put his hands on me should i run away because i am really scared of him.

2007-08-09 08:26:48 · 4 answers · asked by annettahasley 2 in Singles & Dating

I was going with the banquet hall and the whole thing but that cost too much.

2007-08-09 08:25:46 · 11 answers · asked by rayray3rdst 1 in Weddings

Is constantly threatening to break up a sign of an un-healthy Marriage? I dont 100% trust my partner, he lied early in the relationship about a few things, to try to keep me, although I would of stayed anyway. Now we seem to have done the relationship backwards, stormy at first, Married very early (4 months in) I have a baby boy. Now it feels more settled and calmer, I think we both had demons to exorcise. We have. But this means we have lots of material to throw at each other, Him for me drinking after my pregnancy (now stopped, completly) Me for him lying, being in touch with female single "friends" behind my back. It just seems we always have something to throw at each other. We hardly ever shout, we exchange words and insults but not often. If something started out so bad can it ever come good? We laugh a lot more now, make our Son happy and balanced, both want to leave the nastyness given by our parents behind. With this in mind, is it worth trying to have the life we want?

2007-08-09 08:21:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The Gemini has been burned by an ex-husband horribley and the Scorpio has never been married...says he just picky and wants to make sure who he chooses he'll be happy with for the rest of his life.

2007-08-09 08:21:07 · 8 answers · asked by rainclock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so my parents have been divorced since i was 2. I have lived with my dad, but see my mom too. My dad started dating a girl a year ago. And i dont really like her, she is 29 has a 5 year old son. My dad is 38, very hard working and never really brought girls around when i was growing up. So i have never been exposed to him dating. Well i was home watching t.v., and all of a sudden i heard some DISGUSTING noises coming from my dads room while him and his gf are up there. obviously i knew what they were doing and screamed his name and started getting really mad. His gf just left the house, and my dad tried to lie about it. But it had been 1 month now, and im still not over it. His gf hasnt even apologized to me. And i just feel really disrespected. Now everytime she spends the night i always think that things are happening. And i just want my dad to be happy and i want to like her, but i jsut cant get over this! Please help me!!!

2007-08-09 08:19:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iam sad that she thinks that she is cool.

2007-08-09 08:19:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 08:19:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love him so much and all i do is argue with him . His the most different loving - caring boyfriend i every had - in fact my others cheated , hit ,talk bout me behind my back,and puts me down .. and im doing the same to him why ? why? why?

2007-08-09 08:17:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wished death upon someone while arguing? and how long after did you apologized.

2007-08-09 08:16:11 · 8 answers · asked by auroa26 3 in Singles & Dating

you have already been separated five years and its amicable?
Online so called quickie divorces have hidden court charges.
Any ideas? knowledge on this?

2007-08-09 08:16:05 · 10 answers · asked by littlestarr02 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel like men don't understand a woman's need for intimacy...why do we always have to drag them to places, why do they hate vacations and dark corners and coming over?

2007-08-09 08:16:03 · 8 answers · asked by ADA 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 15, and usually stay home, because my parents have to work. What can i do? all i do is watch tv, talk to friends on phone, but they r busy sometimes. I want to work at SPCA but not 16 yet (1 more year). what i do, any advice. thanks

2007-08-09 08:14:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-09 08:14:18 · 13 answers · asked by j-v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

when my boyfriend is noth there and i need "um... pleasuring" what do u suggest i do?!?!?!?! and what should i think about to get" hot"

2007-08-09 08:12:32 · 4 answers · asked by ryaneppleyluvr 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when:

a woman and her boyfriend/husband have sex once every 2-3 months and he takes as long as 45 minutes to ejaculate?

I always thought that when men go without sex for weeks or months on end, they c*m in 5 minutes or less since they have literally "been without it" for so long.

Also, what does it mean when a man can't get an erection no matter how hard he trys, and we have ruled out any medical problems associated with erectile dysfunction???

Just curious

2007-08-09 08:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

MOST all divorces the women take their hubs to the cleaners..and have no problem ruining them financially. You ask me why I would NEVER DARE marry a woman....look no further than this/

2007-08-09 08:10:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have had numerous affairs on my husband. I stopped cheating 5 years ago. I recently confessed everything to my husband. He, with God's help, found a way to forgive me. I have a tremendous amount of pain for hurting him, but I also hurt for the other spouse's involved. Should I tell these other wives or should I keep it to myself and let God handle the situation?

2007-08-09 08:10:55 · 25 answers · asked by BecA 1 in Marriage & Divorce