What does it mean when:
a woman and her boyfriend/husband have sex once every 2-3 months and he takes as long as 45 minutes to ejaculate?
I always thought that when men go without sex for weeks or months on end, they c*m in 5 minutes or less since they have literally "been without it" for so long.
Also, what does it mean when a man can't get an erection no matter how hard he trys, and we have ruled out any medical problems associated with erectile dysfunction???
Just curious
2007-08-09 08:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Anyone of these scenarios could have multiple causes so I will have to be general.
If he can go 2 to 3 months and still take forever to ejaculate, and he has erectile problems that are not physical, he is either:
1. very self disciplined (maybe too much so)
2. masturbating continuously
3. cheating
4. not interested in you as a sexual partner
In any case, the best solution is to ask him which of these it is, or if it is something else.
2007-08-09 08:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each man is different. A man going without for 2-3 months and lasting 45 minutes when he does get it is not totally unbeliveable. Erectile disfunction can be caused by anxioty or nervousness.
2007-08-09 09:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by d b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since sex is 60% mental, I'd imagine that his lack of...lets say stance...is most likely mental.
and as for 45 minutes that pretty goes along with the whole mental aspect...not to mention, there are other ways of ejaculation besides sex. Who the hell knows why some guys have problems.
2007-08-09 08:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just becuz he didnt have sex with you for 2-3months doesnt mean he was pleasing himself or another woman or dude and a man can *** in 5 minutes or less if he is horny enuff it dont matter how long he has been without sex or how recent he has done it and for the not getting hard question you on your own with that dont nothing about it
2007-08-09 13:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by anthentherwasi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to see a doctor. Are you sure you've ruled any medical problems? High blood pressure for example. There has to be an underlying cause. How old is he? I'm 41 and I've had issues, but there has been an underlying medical cause every time.
2007-08-09 08:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by tigrompy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing mental block. I agree with other, try spicing it up with something different. I am in the same boat but opposite. My wife does not do it with me but every 2-3 months and i want it twice a week. Hers is mental. And further more i am 51 years old.
2007-08-09 15:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by bruno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no medical problems huh....Maybe your boyfriend jacks off a lot when your not around? that would be a reason on why it takes so long to ***. Have you tried giving him head to get his erection going?
Sorry Im not going to be able to help much. This situation sounds terrible
2007-08-09 08:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by tommy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-11 21:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be looking at a lot of porn and masterbating a lot, he may possibly be having an affair, or maybe sex has just become boring to him maybe you two should try to spice it up a bit.
2007-08-09 08:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by ducksixty8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋