How can a women so in love on year want to destroy a man the next?

Question

MOST all divorces the women take their hubs to the cleaners..and have no problem ruining them financially. You ask me why I would NEVER DARE marry a woman....look no further than this/

Answer 1

Not most women. Some women. You get to know their character (at the very least) before you marry them.

Answer 2

i understand why some of them do - if you give your all to a man and he breaks your heart over cheating or beating you - or something that isnt necessary i cant say that i would but i dont think its wrong for them to take it and run -

if theyre just not happy anymore - then i think it should be split -

i think the same thing goes for a woman - if she cheats on a man or isnt doing what she is suppose to do at that household - i think the man should get almost everything -

you should also have to take into fact if either party is trying to save the marriage ( where no cheating was involved no abuse ) - if one party is willing to go get counseling, and theyre trying to make theirpartner happy and the partner is non responsive - i think that party should receive more of the assets -

i do not agree with any man or woman taking all the other person has out of spite - because you can - thats just a bissshh wether its a man or woman -

Answer 3

um, have to disagree with you - in that I'm in the family courts day in and day out - your idea that "most women" take their husbands to the cleaners is incorrect.

The reason you think that is because you don't hear about the cases where everything is agreed upon and the divorce is amicable - which actually happens more often than the "fleecings". For every one bad divorce, there are about 25 "good" ones.

Answer 4

Alot of times the woman's lawyer tells them what to do and pushes it to the max. Have you ever fell off a bike? does that mean you will never ride again? Ever been in a car wreck? Did you get in a car again? We all have to overcome our fears in order to suceed in life and reach our personal goals. Ultimately, you will find a woman you will love and want to marry. If you marry on an emotional level, you may fail at marriage. If you marry and prepare at a mental level, you will succeed. Know what you want in a marriage, and be picky about the kind of girl you want. Make sure she takes marriage seriously and wants what you want. You can plan your life and have some control if you think things out. NEVER SAY NEVER!!!

Answer 5

I walked away from an abusive marriage 25,000 in debt that he incurred....I had to leave before he did any more damage. So that shi!t works both ways dear heart. I should have fought for alimony and 1/2 the equity...but I didn't want to have anymore contact with that abusive man.

Answer 6

It's not just women sweetheart.....men do that too. Marriage doesn't mean what it used to.....people are too apt to get out when the going gets tough. I don't blame you for not getting married....I see no reason for it other than if you have children. Children do best with an official mother and father if possible.

Answer 7

Because there is a thin line between Love & Hate

Answer 8

judges award the woman's fair share, if you don't want that then have a future wife sign a prenup.

Answer 9

Hell knoweth no fury like a woman scorned.

Answer 10

SHE IS NOT GOING TO ACT LIKE THAT JUST BECAUSE. WHAT YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT IS WHAT MAKES A PERSON ACT THIS WAY. AND WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU, DON'T DO ANYTHING TO MAKE THAT PERSON HATE YOU. GUYS SOMETIMES THINK THAT THEY CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT AND THAT THE FEMALE CAN'T DO ANYTHING LIKE HE IS DOING OR SHE CAN'T DEFEND HERSELF AGAINST HIS MALICIOUS BEHAVIOR.