if he were to get in an accident and it turns out he loses alot of brain functions making him/her basically mentally challenged would you stay with them?
or like on that show maury where that guy had sever cancer in his face and they had to carve it out so he has no face, cant see or talk(maybe hearing is good still im not sure) would you stay with him like his wife did?
2007-08-09 08:27:37 · 20 answers · asked by mannyg2199 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I would. It would be really hard, knowing how he used to be.....full of life and happiness, but when you love someone it doesn't matter how they look or what they go through.....the love is still there. It's like being away from someone you love for years and then seeing them again. Your feelings don't change, just the circumstances.
Thinking about your question really hurts.....we just never know what will happen to any of us from day to day. That's why we should live everyday to it's fullest and never look back. It just seems like we get caught up in life and forget who and what is really important.
We should be thankful each and everyday for our health, love, and happiness, because there is always someone else out there in a worse situation.
2007-08-09 08:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Gretta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with him for life, in sickness and in health, and so on. It would be a horrible thing to happen, but I love him and something like that wouldn't change my feelings for him. My love for him is based upon the kind of guy he is, who he is on the inside, not what he looks like. There are many more important things in life than looks. And I feel bad for those people that are so shallow that they would leave their spouse due to circumstances that cannot be controlled. I'm not saying it would be like nothing happened; yes there are changes that will occur and emotions that you have to work through. However, everyone has to do this in a marriage from time-to-time...not just in the unthinkable situations.
2007-08-09 15:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it would be hard at times but there is no one I would rather go through life with. Even if that life has problems. Which brings us back to the other question about happiness verses commitment. If I was only concerned about my happiness then I would leave when times get tough. But if I am committed we can overcome the tough times and still have a great marriage
2007-08-09 15:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was, am and will always be an oddball cause I believe in true love and total devotion ! This is why I am divorced and alone. I have yet to meet a lady who is like minded ! I learned too late that my wife was not !
2007-08-09 15:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? I don't want to stay with him right now, but if something like that happened...I would feel obligated and stay...and NO I would not let him know that I was only staying because i felt like i had to. I would do my best to take care of him in any way I had to. The same way I have done for the last 10 years....with his other health problems....
2007-08-09 15:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Bite me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I married my husband for better or worse through sickness and health. I wouldn't leave him ever. I'm not shallow like that I love him and I would do whatever it took to make him happy. I am in my marriage for life. No matter what happens to my husband I would be there to support and help him in his time of need.
2007-08-09 15:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by 1hotmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love and lust after my husband so much, I would do just about anything for him. I told him if he was in a car accident and was in a coma, I would lick him entire body until he woke up and came back to me!! Of course, I know where he is ticklish :)
2007-08-09 15:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I certainly would. I honestly believe he would do the same for me. Our love is strong and deep, not just physical. We have already been through a lot together, not as extreme as you describe, but... a lot.
2007-08-09 15:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in good and in bad times thats how it should be but most of the womans or mens do leave their partner because they cant handle it,they say yes they will stay but in reality alot of people wont..sad but true
2007-08-09 15:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by Blackvelvet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would.
But on the other hand, I had a husband that did not take care of his health at all.... would not go to dr., would not take care of his health insurance and when he reached 57 (15 yrs older than me), I said to myself, I'm not going to spend my older years taking care of someone merely due to the fact that he did not take care of himself. and bye bye. ( with Many other things that he did not take responsibility for)
2007-08-09 15:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bentley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋