2007-08-09 07:02:07 · 32 answers · asked by eoc1000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well looks either draw you in or away iniatialy but over personality will really play an important part
i was with a cute guy great in bed blah blah--but he was a d-i-c-k- so he became repulsive to me overtime
the more his true colors showed the less i actually became atracted to him
like i even seemed to notice slight psychical flaws i hadnt noticed before
he became ugly because of the inside
2007-08-16 19:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first meeting it is the looks. However, if it is someone that you have befriended but wasn't the look that typically puts you in that lust state, after awhile you may find an attraction to that person from that person's personality. But again, that is a long run thing. In the short run, it is almost always the looks. I would say the first couple dates, looks are 75% and personality is 25%. After the first few dates, that reverses and eventually becomes 75% personality and 25% looks. Here is another claim to that... most that are just dating look for that beautiful person on the outside that fuels the flames of desire. When people get married, it is the wings of cupid that are sought after. When you see couples on the street, one of them doesn't look great, so what other reason is there for the other person to be with that person?
2007-08-17 04:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by eagle8648 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the individual. One person can be more attracted to looks while the other is attracted to the personality. Then you have that one person that likes a combination of both. Personality and looks both strongly influence the way that someone perceives them.
2007-08-17 03:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:
1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)
Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).
Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth
2007-08-09 07:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They both works for me, personality and looks. Personality ranks #1 for me, however, appearances are just as important to me, his style of dressing, I don't mind he has cut out jeans, as long as they r clean and so is he, a hygiene conscious person is very important to me as far as appearances go, I don't get hung up on looks because I want a person who in the end, has my back, and, I can feel safe and secure with him oppose to having someone who turns my head only. Good looks only ,comes a "dime by the dozen". I want to be someone who I don't have to imagine or wonder where I stand with him in his heart. Give me true feelings, a good personality, strong moral issues and I can work with the rest providing it is of a healthy nature,
2007-08-16 23:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by yawhaneeh53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I'm attracted to a guy that looks gorgeous and we date and have nothing in common. other times I will deny a guy because he's not attractive and after meeting him a couple of times he gets better looking each time because of his personality. All in all I married the guy with the personality while he married me for my looks. Ironic isn't it?
2007-08-09 07:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a combo of both because if someone looks hot they could have a f**** up personality, but if someone doesn't look all that great there personality sometimes makes you want to get to know them and maybe date them after a while
2007-08-17 04:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by sharon b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can be either. Of course when u see some1 u notice rather u think they are attractive or not. But, sometimes u can meet someone that u dont think is real attractive, but once u get to kno them u think differently. Their personality grows on u and sometimes they start lookin different. I kno I have thought some1 looked good at 1st site, then I start thinking they're not so HOTTTT after I get to kno them! lol
2007-08-17 05:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by mindy f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are attracted to both.......but its generally looks first as u cant see someones personality first....
beauty is different in everybodys eyes...........
and there will always be some feature u like on someone that will make u feel atracted to her or him,then when yee actually get to meet up the personality shines out.......
then thats when people start to say that personality is more important then looks........
2007-08-09 07:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always been attracted to a persons personality
2007-08-17 06:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by pujolsfan2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋