...while i am at the club with my husband?!?!?
i know the females are gonna say, "YES, that is sooooo disrespectful...blah,blah,blah" but seriously, what's the difference between what i'm doing and guys who go to the strip club (some even go with their partners)??? or when a couple is walking towards me and the guy makes eye contact with me while he is with his girl?!?! no difference right??? =)
i see you guys making eye contact too, and lovin it!
2007-08-09 08:04:20 · 14 answers · asked by **Lil QT** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've been married 15 years...first time he has been to the club with me. i go every weekend
he doesn't mind me looking at guys or girls and i don't mind him looking at other females or guys for that matter! lol
2007-08-09 08:35:11 · update #1
You're only human of course women check out other guys all the time, it's just guys get caught doing it! lol!.....Oh yeah has long has you're not messing around and seriously flirting with other men it's all right. Everybody has a wandering eye it's just controlling those impulses
2007-08-09 09:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm probably going to hear it from some others but here I go anyway. Although it's human to look and appreciate members of the opposite sex, I think you may want to respect your partner and not go out of your way to make eye contact and keep staring. But you didn't say whether your partner did mind you making eye contact. If he doesn't really have a problem with it, good for you, but keep in mind, you may not appreciate it when he looks at other women. As for what goes on in a strip club, it's all a fantasy.(most of the time anyway) when couples go together, the man is just happy because he got the ok from his girlfriend to be looking at half nude girls. Or maybe they are just looking to "spice" things up in their relationship. In any case, it is about respect and if you want him to respect you, you may want to consider his feelings and respect him too.
2007-08-09 15:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by miss mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you want your partner completely satisfied by you, and not have to go to a club to get more attention? This is obviously not helping your relationship with him. You should talk to him about how his looking at other women make you feel. This is hurting your confidence if you are starting to check out other guys. Don't let this start a seed that can grow into an issue that can break your marraige apart.
2007-08-09 15:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you going with your hubby if you're checking out other guys? Isn't he up to snuff? Kinda like why'd you marry him?
And not much difference between you do that and the guys going to strip clubs....I always thought guys were the sight driven ones until a woman told me the other than that she thought my eyes were beautiful and that I was very handsome...gave me pause....so, we all are curious....it's what happens next...are you intentiallly flirting with your body language, trying to get a reaction? Is hubby not doing something that you feel there's a hole in your life because of? You do sound a bit like there's something missing.....
Sorry, if I'm out of line, but being faithful is more than not hopping into bed with another man......
I try to build a wholesome brother sister relationship with gals I am attracted to....I want to be with my wife forever, but it's not healthy not to make freinds. but your spouse needs to clearly sense that they're #1 in your life...no question.
Does this help?
2007-08-09 15:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by waynocook53 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing wrong with that. I mean its the same as having a crush on a celebrity hotty! As long your looking and not touching;)
2007-08-09 15:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by headbang4life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is fine to look-- but no touching. Those would be the rules I would give my boyfriend or husband, and those would be the rules I follow.
2007-08-09 15:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Alli 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Right or wrong everyone does it. The only difference is that some people are hypocrites.
2007-08-09 15:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by elurle 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to be a LITTLE subtle about it, but no - there's nothing wrong with it (as long as you're strictly looking and not touching!).
2007-08-09 15:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by BK 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
would you like your husband looking at other guys? If you have to look your no thappy with what you have!
2007-08-09 15:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by Faith 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no.... i think there are many attractive men out there and GOD put them here for us too look at... just like Pam An. and all those other slutty super models!!!
so i just appericate beauty!
2007-08-09 15:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by sharpie2292 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋