Well I just got a new job at a gym for front desk and I have a b/f of 3 1/2 years. Well he is afraid of all the guys will flirt with me and everything but I don't think its a big deal as long as I don't do anything with them. I can actually be a flirt myself because I like to play around with guys cuz its funny. These guys at the gym that hired me are personal trainers and they are very nice and really cute. I dont know if I am going to be able to not flirt back if they ever do with me.. I am a saggi. and that just comes with my nature.. very restless and a tad promiscuous. I am not a hoe by any means I can just flirt sometimes when a guy is very nice to me and I like him back. I know this could be wrong and lead to something unwanted but how do I avoid doing so?
2007-08-09 05:59:49 · 2 answers · asked by sagittarius_girl806 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if your boyfriend has trust issues, perhaps he needs to find another girlfriend.
it's your JOB, and that's the way it goes.
it's nice to have people of the opposite sex around who are friendly. anyway, it's not a good idea to get involved with people we work with, and in many places it's a policy that you don't.
you surely have limits and boundaries about how close other peple can get and what they can say to you... if not, set some.
i dont' know what else to say.
2007-08-09 06:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it professional, don't flirt, keep yourself busy by working and learning and concentrating on your task(s)..don't go into the job thinking about all of what you mentioned above. If you really love your BF then none of this will be an issue, no worries.
2007-08-09 13:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by mindseye06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋