2007-08-09 06:06:31 · 22 answers · asked by Tha Queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before I found out he was reaching out to his ex he told me he was having problems.......so me being his girl I felt like i was suppose to be their 4 him and help him....he told me that he need to take care of it on his own....now after all of this going on i just wanna give up on him and move on with my life but my heart wont let me........
2007-08-09 06:24:39 · update #1
Run the opposite way and don't look back.
2007-08-09 06:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Pink♥Glitter 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you guys are very young.
He's not as mature as you are at this point so the situation is probably hopeless.
Try calmly talking to him first to see it the situation can be fixed.
If he goes on the defensive and starts playing the blame game on you just walk away from the guy and find someone who is more mature and reasonable.
I know its hard to do but its for the best.
By this time next year you will be wondering what you ever saw in that loser to begin with.
2007-08-09 13:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by freemana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better move on sister cause he is obviously! You probably werent giving him something he wanted, most likely sexually...thats normally the reason for this type of action by a man, Sorry,, but thats the truth.
2007-08-17 07:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where your coming from.My ex did the same thing except with 4 of his ex girlfriends, and when I caught him and smacked the **** out of her,then went home the next day I got all of my **** out of hus house and his ex cost me my job of 10 yrs..Getting rid of him was the best thing Ive done..DONT date younger men, nothing but problems.
2007-08-16 11:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by dtoys5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him.
if it bothers you for him to go running to her & not talk it out with you - then let him know that. He's not a mind reader. he needs to be told things like that.
if its just the fact that its his ex that he's running to...then tell him to find another person to talk to besides her.
or, just let him go. tell him that he's obviously still in love with his ex and he should go back to her.
2007-08-09 13:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by *~Andrea~* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to yourself and leave him, if he is cheating on you why should you stay? You deserve better. Never settle always get what you deserve.You know how it feels so don't put up with it any longer.
2007-08-17 03:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by rhondam79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still has some growing to do. Meanwhile, for you my sister, there are still many fish in the ocean. Move on!
2007-08-17 08:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by reallycrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to ask him is he happy with u any more if not then youll have to move on i know its hard to think about and even harder to do but when neigther of u are happy why make it worse or even take it to a level of hatred
2007-08-09 13:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by craze_designer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's using you to make his ex jealous!
2007-08-17 11:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by criminal_justice2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sit down and talk. Communication is vital in a relationship.
2007-08-09 13:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got his ex pregnant and thats his prob
2007-08-17 11:32:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋