Well,
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a week and a half and things are going great
But we dont see eachother everyday because we both live in different towns so i usually have to get the bus there or he gets the bus where i live
I dont know if he might dump me or not because i love him like crazy and i keep thinking he'd get bored of me and stuff
Last time we were together he said that i was perfect and im his whole life, and i feel exact the same way,
And i love him terribly, my friend doesnt agree with our relationship, so it kinda makes me scared that she'll lie to him or call him names and he'd end up dumping me because he cant take no more of her bulliness
I told her to not diss him and stuff, and she just kept saying ginger people aint normal because they're ugly [He is ginger by the way]
but i think he is perfect for me, which is why i want to be with him forever
Its getting differcult, how can i make things normal like any other normal people?
Thanks xx
2007-08-09 06:04:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to talk to your BF and tell him that other people may say things just to break up your happiness. But if he is bored with you do you really want someone that would want you to go against your beliefs and values. Your young just go out with guys and have fun, you'll find the guy you want to be with forever when your older and know what is really important
2007-08-09 06:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Cassey G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend sounds like a rude person. There is nothing wrong with people with red hair. It's just a color. You need to tell her to back off. Tell her that if she is really your friend she would respect you and leave it alone.
But you two have only been together a week and a half so do realize that it is only a new relationship and that many things can happen. Living in diffrent towns will make it difficult.
2007-08-09 13:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by heartzablaze215 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships over long distance can be hard, but they are possible. But you have to trust each other a lot, other wise it won't work.
To be honest it sounds like you need to dump your friend. Friends don't do what she's doing, they stick by you even when you make silly decisions.
If she's also bullying him then I'd tell her to take a walk, as she has no right.
..and it really doesn't matter the colour of the hair or anything else.
2007-08-09 13:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by SevenSeventy7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How close of a friend is this person supposed to be, its not a normal thing for a friend to do really, where they go around insulting the person you really like - is she supposed to be a best friend.
You like him alot, she does not, thats the way the world works, we all like different things (which is good in this situation - at least you are not chasing the same person!)
I think it could be worth you speaking with this guy about the situation, it sounds like you are really in love and if you explain how she is being and that she may contact him and tell him alsorts, at least that way he is prepared for it and will know that its not true.
Hope this helps
Good Luck :-)
2007-08-09 13:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by marknbrandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes work and dedication. At a week and a half you've got to rememeber that it;s brand new and the relationship can go either way. Just stay dedicated and don't let what other people have to say steer you in the wrong dirrection. YOu need to follow your own hearts.
2007-08-09 13:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by jennaonna2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, if you've only been with him for one week, you probably don't love him.
Trust me, I've been there, done that.
And if the relationship doesn't work out, then move on. That's life, and there's plenty of other fish in the sea.
2007-08-09 13:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by luz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your moving extremly too fast. You only been with him a week and you talking about forever. Relax and let things happen if he really like you your so called friend would not be able to change his feelings
2007-08-09 13:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is prejudice. Is this really a friend you want?? I wouldn't. Perhaps you should tell her that as long as she continues with her prejudice talk, then you will not be able to be her friend.
Putting up with it is being tolerant which makes you just as bad. Think about that.
2007-08-09 13:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by lanagrl78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this "friend" you're discussing is either jealous or not really a friend at all.
meanwhile, it's impossible to be in love in just under two weeks... call it infatuation... cuz that's what it is. it takes more than a couple weeks to get to know a person, believe me....
let us know how it's going in two years...
2007-08-09 13:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is perfect for you and he thinks you are perfect for him then you shouldn't let anyones opinoins get in the way.
2007-08-09 13:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by GAMMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋