Basically, last year i was the most hated girl in school, and im really worried about this year. i have like 2 friends who really understand me and thats it. My 2 best friends betrayed me and so now they joined the popular side to go against me
2007-08-09 03:16:55 · 14 answers · asked by :-)_4_me!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When I was at school, I was bullied terribly. I came from a poor background and wore awful clothes and had free school plimsoles. My life was absolutely awful. I was hated ie no one wanted to be friends with me. I left school, by accident ended up going to california and got discovered as a model. Ended up wearing the best clothes and shoes and earned loads of money. No one knows how their life is going to turn out, A few years back I went on a school reunion through that site friends reunited. Everyone was dull, they all wore cheap clothes, and looked in need of a good hair cut and to experience a decent restaurant (not mcdonalds) Not many had prospered in life and I pulled up in my new Mercedes. I had nothing in common with these people I had lived a life and been and seen more than they could ever achieve. I was the one in power I was no longer the smelly dirty poor child. I am now happily married and live in a big house with a lake and swimming pool. I thank God every day for what he has allowed me to have in life. I never gloat about what I have only give thanks for it. What I am saying to you, is the only person you need in life is yourself. You are far bigger and better than anyone else. Believe in yourself and you will achieve it all. Rise above it. It is very hard to do. But you don't need to run with the pack you don't need to be one of the herd be individual and ignore all the taunts and lies. A wonderful life can be yours if you reach out and take it When everyone sees you achieving something ie good grades, nice hair, nails, a saturday job whatever, they will all want to be your friends. After the reunion I had people calling me all the time to be my friend and to use my pool. holiday home etc. Why do you think you were the most hated girl in school, what did you do to earn that reputation? Become the most liked girl in school, this year. You can do it I believe in you and I will support you all the way. Go there girl. From a friend in the UK x
2007-08-09 03:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I hate it too! I'm in 8th grade and I totally know what you feel. Are these girls older than you. If they are then they're looking for ways to make fun of you since your the new girl, your younger, and your complety innocent. If they're the same age, they probably don't know what to expect from you since your new. Who knows? They might want to talk to you but they don't know anything about you.
2016-05-17 22:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by stephen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prove them wrong. Compliment ppl. Not the teachers though or else you'll be a teachers pet. A kid drops their books, when everyone walks by be the one to help. Show them you're really nice no matter what everyone else says!
Good Luck!!!
2007-08-09 03:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by livley_lived_919 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget them all. Now you know who your true friends are. walk around school with your head held high and a high confidence that cant be broken. Cherish the friends who stuck beside.
2007-08-09 03:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in a situation just like that. what you need to do is just hold your head up high and ignore them if they make evil remarks. just focus on your grades, you are not there to make friends you are there to learn and get your education, so just get good grades and try to get along with them if you can, i know its hard but just tough it out i know you can do it! GOOD LUCK GIRL!
2007-08-09 03:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by megan w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY DON'T they like you was it something you did or what forget about those idiots and find new friends that you can trust and depend on when the going gets tuff.
2007-08-09 03:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
D'ya know what?
They hate you.....
But do you think the teachers or any boys like you or maybe even love you?
As for me even though some people actually hate me i still love them and pray for them....
Also, why do they hate you anyway? What did you do?
Just try to ignore them...
God LOVES you...Ur family loves you...See?
you're not HATED...You are LOVED!
2007-08-09 04:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i now how that feels . but sometimes your friends turn out to be someone that you don't now at all and they use all the info you told them and change it a little and make rumors . i now how it feels . so try to act like they where never your friends and try to make new one .
2007-08-09 03:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo.. poor thing.. i use to be like you.. and i am also like you now... but never mind i believe one day your two so called bff will realise you are better than the popular gang!! good luck to both of us ok!!
2007-08-09 03:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Madeleine Ong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go through a cool change, or not worry about it.
2007-08-09 03:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by Handy man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋