So, if you went over to a guy's place to have sex with him, didn't tell him this was your intent, you came on to him, but he did not sleep with you, he didn't turn you down, it just didn't lead to it. would you leave mad? if so how mad would you be?
2007-08-09 00:25:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, she would be mad. Don't listen to all these little girls saying otherwise. She expected certain results. She didn't get it. Therefore she will feel like she was rejected.
2007-08-09 00:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, so maybe my answer is null and void, but speaking from my own experience you can expect the full gamut of responses. Some women (the intelligent and classy ones) have walked away with admiration at the amount of respect I showed, and even more determined to have me than before. Others (the ones with the emotional depth of a puddle) have taken it personally and embarked upon a quest to make my life as miserable as possible, to the point where I have feared for my safety.
When you're a guy, rejection is par for the course. Women can be absolutely brutal in rejection, and we're expected to put up and shut up and move on. It's only recent that it's been socially acceptable in society for women to make a move on men, and there aren't as many social clues for them to draw upon with regards to how to act sensibly when faced with rejection. It's not like they can go to their grandmothers and say "I totally made a move on this guy last night but I couldn't get him in the sack, what should I do?"
Bottom line is if a woman acts like a child because you didn't sleep with her then she's probably going to act like a child over any number of things later once you do decide to. The same holds true when the genders are reversed. Sometimes you just run into idiots in life, and there's nothing you can do to avoid it. Best to just move on and not waste too many of your brain cells thinking about it.
2007-08-09 07:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mark F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, for a secound lets turn this question around...
So, if you went over to a girl's (that you probably really liked..) to hit on her, didn't tell her this was your intent, you came on to her, but she did not sleep with you, she didn't turn you down, it just didn't lead to it. would you leave mad? depending on how you feel thats probably how she feels too...
but she would probably be embarrassed..
2007-08-09 08:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by *S* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't be mad. I wouldn't have a right to be. If I didn't make my intentions known beyond a shadow of a doubt, then the only person I should be angry with is myself.
2007-08-09 07:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing if you didn't f.. her then you did turn her down and yes that would make some girls mad
2007-08-09 07:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by the black hand 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm no "little girl" and no, i wouldn't be "mad". Mature women already know they don't get what they want 100% of the time. It's no big deal.
2007-08-09 07:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naw. I'd think the guy showed some respect. I'd be ashamed of myself instead!
2007-08-09 07:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by adazhia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to hav sex with this girl why didnt u just jump on top of her..if she was up for it too?!
2007-08-09 07:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by sktch27bmr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have been M A D D !!!! but I would have had the balls to tell you want I wanted.
2007-08-09 08:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Sandra B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the girl your are referring to is sure sounds like disappointed!
2007-08-09 07:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by simply_me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋