Yesterday I was with the girl that I like and some other friends at the beach. Things were going good, we held hands in the pool, she was looking at me alot and she was following me alot! At the end of th day, we were going home in the same car with some other friends, so she went in first and sat at the back and then my friends told me to sit at the back next to her but she said that I shouldn't because the ones that had the farthest houses and were going home at the end should sit at the back (it's just for organisation)... But I have a feeling that she didn't want me to sit next to her, I dunno why!
And two days ago she told me that she wanted to see me at night with our friends (and she told me that I was very cute in the same conversation), then when I went to dinner with my friends to meet her and her friends, she left with some friends(but not all). Like why didn't she stay if she wanted to see me?
Does she like me? Why is she acting this way? She's really confusing me!
2007-08-09 23:27:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So what should I do?
2007-08-09 23:32:27 · update #1
Don't worry, she likes you, but sometimes girls can feel better when they have their friends there to hide behind. That way, you won't be able to fully confront them, especially if they're shy.
She could be wanting you to chase her. It's a kind of game. Girls love to be pursued by guys. She may want you to be the dominant one in this situation.
Well, do what she wants. Chase her! Act like her playing hard to get is messing with you, and pursue her.
2007-08-09 23:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by Pink_lemur 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinkng she does like you but throughout the night she is probably over-thinking the whole situation and feels that she is trying to hard. If you are interested than why don't you take some initiative? She probably doesn't thnk you are interested in her and doesn't want to set herself up for a disappointment. That's what i'm guessing.
Step up...call the shots...don't over-think things especially when you are around her. You both are thinking too much...relax.
2007-08-10 06:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by shhhh_j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.... Maybe you should talk to her. Or maybe she's playing hard to get! You should play back. Ask her friends if she likes you. Well, I'm not sure, you guys held hands and stuff...
Maybe she didn't want to stay because someone was there she didn't like, or maybe she wanted to go home.
Well, you can e-mail me at litto_sweet_nikki@yahoo.com
2007-08-10 20:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.♥Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she does like you but is just feeling you out with a group of friends. keep seeing her in a group setting and when the time is right ask her out on a date.
2007-08-10 06:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does like you, but she was not on a date with you. You should ask her out if you want her complete attention.
2007-08-10 06:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she does like u but maybe she is not sure how to go about telling u so maybe u should make the first move and talk to her then u would no where u stand
Go for it !!
2007-08-10 06:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's having mixed emotions about you, try to talk to her and ask her she was acting that way.
2007-08-10 06:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by K.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's playing hard to get.
2007-08-10 06:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by s89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are always gonna be confusing...
so good luck...
2007-08-10 06:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by chato02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GIVE HER MORE ATTENTION!!
2007-08-10 06:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by ♫Donna♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋