A ex frined of mine is coming over to my house tonight so we can try to make up and be friends again. Neither one of us is mad anymore. (friend moved in my house, later I kicked her out for not even trying to look for job, and spending my money) Now I hear she is wanting to be friends again, as do I so I invited her over for dinner tonight. I know this is going to be akward since it's been 2 years since we have even talked to each other. What can I do to make everyone comfortable?
2007-08-09 23:04:10 · 5 answers · asked by honeybear 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get naked... :D
2007-08-09 23:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi there the only way to be with this is by being youre honest self ,maybe youre friend has wakened up and realised that she was using you and needed to be kicked out ,but dont be fooled by her wanting to be friends why has it taken 2 years ,has she used everyone else and is back to make it up and move back in ,just be ewary and if you want to be friends then fine but if you do not want her moving back into the house tell her the truth ,remember this is youre home and you have worked hard to have it the way you want and there is no point on agreeing to something that 5 minutes later youre going to regert ,and if she throws her dummy out of her pram ,then i would bet that ,that is the only reason why she wants to get back friends with you ,im sorry im probably not helping you here but i cant help but think that she is after something ,as it has taken 2 years to want to make up ,i hope for youre sake im wrong and really does want to be friends with you and get things as they where .......good luck and take care xx and relax remember this is youre home and what you say goes !!xx
2007-08-10 06:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just be adult about it. Relax and go with the flow, if you feel uncomfortable just simply change the conversation to something semi related like:
"oh you know what that reminds me of the time..."
Also, it's always fun to reminisce about old times, talk about what the both of you did together when you're relationship with this friend was in the better. Discuss what's going on with her and update her on your life. But obviously, don't bring up old problems..it's only cause unecessary drama and refresh old wounds.
2007-08-10 06:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think by not bringing up those incidents. Talk about the good times and make new plans, too.
2007-08-10 06:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just behave normally as ur behave last time
nothing to worry or hasitate
life goes on
2007-08-10 06:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋