a man was engaged for two years and then his finace dies. since then has been in several relationships since most at the same time. as many as four women at one time. tells all he is deeply in love with them but vague on commiments. Who's to know if he serious and which one. or is he so hurt that he feels he should play around with everyones feelings. i feel he knows its selfish but doesn't care and now testing the waters on the other side.
2007-08-09 23:50:55 · 9 answers · asked by Marina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
of course he can... :D
2007-08-09 23:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say this is not the best time in the world to get involved with this man. He is in grief whether he breaks down and cries or not. There is no one who can replace someone he was in love with. He will need half the length of time since he lost her - or more since she died and it was not a broken relationship - to recover, if he ever does. Broken hearts do heal, but he is flailing in the deep end right now.
2007-08-10 06:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, it really depends on the person. I mean if he trully loved that person and he believed that person was the one then he would be going through some serious grief and it's really hard to be the new person.
Sometimes I think you have to wait awhile and for some people, they probably just can't move on.
2007-08-10 06:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably just looking for affection since the loss of a loved one. He'll come right - it may take a little while, but if he is an adult he can do whatever he wants. His girlfriend who died probably wouldn't want him mis-behaving - but she wouldn't want him to be all alone either.
2007-08-10 06:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by kiwichickie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes awhile to get over losing someone you love that much. He probably will not be able to commit to anyone for a good long time. He is just killing time right now.
2007-08-10 06:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
eventually i believe he can be in a serious relationship but not right now. hes hurting,i think he should cool it on the dating or he might do something he will regret.(hurt other people)misery loves company
2007-08-10 07:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by monica_hogard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the four women eventually will find out, it's not like he can hide this fact (that he is going around with them) forever
2007-08-10 06:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he needs to give himself healing time from the girl.mourn
then also from so much dating!!!!
if you are among the girls....run now
2007-08-10 06:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs a counselor.
2007-08-10 06:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋