Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

She is running around with her exes, and not just one at a time. While he is at work, she goes barhopping with a group of male friends and more than one are an ex. He goes to defend his territory, and she says no dont worry about it. I HAVE NEVER TOLD A GUY NOT TO FIGHT, ESPECIALLY OVER ME. Meanwhile, back at the ranch, she is begging to "work this out i love you" i think she should shove it. Hes all confused and said fine I wont stand up for you, even when the greasies start to hit on you. So, again, i offered some stress releif and said i would be more than happy to help her make an exit. : ) o he is so lovey to me. he lets me be lovey to him. i was with a man for so long that wouldn't let me touch him all lovey. To run my fingers thru his hair or something simple like that. this isnt love its even more wonderful : )

2007-08-09 18:31:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 19 year old male... going on 20, and i have this really hot blonde math prof (young 30\s). She has caught me checking her out many times.... so today I went to her office and we talked for a bit then i asked if she wanted to get a coffee and she paused for a long time and then just said "not right now but thanks".

do u think she hates me now? what do i do next time i go to class? act like it never happened?

2007-08-09 18:29:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 18:28:49 · 4 answers · asked by A. Kalashnikov 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 40 yrs old and love everything about every woman i meet. I love their hair, eyes, nose,smell,shoes...I' mean everything.....I have been married 17 yrs--how bad of a man am I?

2007-08-09 18:26:46 · 15 answers · asked by coolest_guy_incanada 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-09 18:22:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

kids are so funny and the most honest people on this earth. do you have any funny stories that you would like to share from your most embarrassing moments file? for me the other day my 3 yr. old decided to follow me into the bath room while i took a shower. i had just taken my hair weave out and thrown it on the floor in my bedroom. my hair was due for a serious shampooing so i get into the shower and start showering and after a few minutes my 3yr. old leaves out of the bathroom. i dont think anything of it cause she does that from time to time. minutes later i step out of the shower and im drying myself off and she comes back in and asks what im doing and i tell her i just finished showering and washing my hair. then i say "mommy is done cause im all clean now" and she says "you didnt wash your hair , mommy" and i said "yes i did Boo Boo." then she gets upset sort of and says "no you didnt......see!" then hands me a big handful of the hair i had just threw all over the floor.

2007-08-09 18:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he has a raspy voice and my boyfreind is out of town and im home alone wat do i do he said he's wacthin me wat should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-09 18:18:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a mother of three. It is basically all I've ever wanted in life, to be a mom. My sister is the corporate woman on the move. I don't regret any choices I've made and wouldn't change anything. But she just got back from a whirlwind tour through Italy, plus a 14 day cruise in the Mediterranean. I'm not jealous of her life as a whole since she's single and alone a lot. I'm just so jealous of her amazing journey through Italy and Venice and Rome and on and on. I'm trying to share in all her excitement and view her pictures, but the whole time I'm just ugly and green inside.

2007-08-09 18:18:05 · 13 answers · asked by baxter 3 in Family

2007-08-09 18:16:57 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Two years ago, My grandmother was recovering from breast cancer, and moving into a brand new house. I was helping her with her foster children, because she wasn't able to do much. She got a call about a new baby she was getting. We got him straight from the hospital, 3 days old. I moved in so that I could take care of him. I tended to him, while my grandparents watched the older kids. I became really close to him, singing to him at 4 in the morning while he mumbled along during feeding, taking him to parent and tot classes. I miss the feeling of when he was laying on my chest, feeling his little chest move up and down with each little breath, knowing that this person I cared so much about was so close to my heart, the overwhelming feeling of peace, the feeling that time stops and that theres no wrong in the world. Do I sound completely psychotic? Every week, they treatened that he was going to be moved with his family, that day always came and passed. Until the last time, july21 06.

2007-08-09 18:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Friends? Freedom? What kinds of things have you experienced/ witnessed? Serious answers and explanations, please. Thanks :-)

2007-08-09 18:15:36 · 22 answers · asked by Wondering 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I found some porn sites on my computer and also found out some other illigal activities my 20yr has been into. He made it my business when he envolved me.I love him with all my heart but I feel I lost my son when I did this. I have a restraining order on him. I am very afraid of him.I want him to get help with his problems. I offered many times. I am a disabled veteran and he pulls one of his sick stunts 1 time a month. "To see if mom loves me enough to find out the truth. I can't take it anymore. I am so drained. I worry about him all the time. Please pray for him. His name is Daniel. He needs alot of help. Don't think me the ogre, just the mom who is so tired and ready to disappeared all together. Bless you all. Cheryl

2007-08-09 18:13:32 · 11 answers · asked by silvrhawk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my husband for 12yrs. & married 7 of it. I have two children. I'm so depressed all the time. I love my husband b/c of my children but, I'm not in love with him. I am not unfaithful to my husband but, my thoughts are. Before I got married I was with someone for 5yrs. and to this day I cannot bring myself to forget him. Last couple of years my husband drinks more, very controlling(more jealous), and we argue every single day. He's a good dad but, we can't seem to get along. I've tried to get along with him and nothing ever seems to work for us. Maybe it's my fault for having these thoughts of someone else but, I've never acted on it. I love my children and would never do anything to hurt them. I always seem to fill guilty after arguing with my husband but, everyday it's the same routine in my life. When we argue we say some really terrible things to one another. I'm just not happy & miserable but, I don't want to hurt my kids. I want a life to.

2007-08-09 18:11:36 · 12 answers · asked by honeybee4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

who have no hair on their head?

2007-08-09 18:11:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom says it hurts a little. but i want to know a little more. and does it hurt a guy the first time?

2007-08-09 18:11:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 18:10:29 · 2 answers · asked by facethefacts 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi what if am 20 year old and the man I'll marry is 29 to 30 yr old.Do u think that it's a problem?Bcoz I've heard so many women who are 10 years smaller than their husbands.So wat do u think on zat.Please giv me ur opinions n thanx in advance 4 ur answer..

2007-08-09 18:10:16 · 13 answers · asked by gurly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i feel so sad right now....i know im a guy and "men dont cry" but i feel like crying right now......

What the heck is wrong with me?

And it really didnt help what my girlfreidn said to me :'(

We love each other, and its a long distance relationship, i love her enough to marry her right?

But then all of a sudden she said something that made me feel....wow it made me feel way worse.

Anyway, why the hell am i so sad???? And BTW i was sad before she said it so....

2007-08-09 18:09:09 · 26 answers · asked by The Eternal Warrior? 4 in Singles & Dating

How can I read somebody's body language and what do they mean?

2007-08-09 18:08:56 · 4 answers · asked by pre med student 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 34 and was circumcised three years ago. He rarely ever ejaculates during sex. He's able to stay erect for hrs, but he says he can't climax because his " member" goes numb after a lot of penetration. He also has hinted that he was never able to get his ex's pregnant. Does this have to do with his circumcision?

2007-08-09 18:07:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-09 18:04:54 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well my ex has a girlfriend now. and they've been fighting a lot lately because me and her are friends. then he comes and emails me saying "thnx so much" i say huh.. and he says "bcuz of u i dumped my g.f" and then i ask him how its my fault and he said because she slept over at my house (sleepover). so they work things out a few hours later and are back together. than he says "f*** u" i say what did i do?!?!?! he says "thnx for f***ing things up" i say well u guys just apologized so stop making her only be friends and hang out with you. let her have a life. etc.. so he "dumped her" then he said it was because of me in general..

what is all this nonsense about? is it me, or him?! whats going on?!

2007-08-09 18:03:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-09 18:02:37 · 8 answers · asked by HARISH 1 in Weddings

I have been with my daughter's father for 3 years now, but Im unhappy. He is a great father and we get along for the most part, but lately things have been diffrent. I found out he uses his phone to chat with other women and have them send naked pictures of themselves and he has gone as far as call the whores who send the pics. his phone is always on low or vibrate and he just recently locked his phone book so I can see names but I can't see phone numbers. When I confront him he either ignors me or gets angry, and all this started after I had our baby and lost my nice figure. I am currently in school and he is the sole bread winner, so I am afraid to leave him for finacial reasons. Everyone I know thinks he is a gem(he helps around the house, he tends to our 11 month old, he is the only one working while Im in school,and he gose around brainwashing people that he"loves"me.Would some that loves you try and be so secrative???? Im stuck and don't know what to do - deal with it or move ?

2007-08-09 18:01:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend says he and his ex wife lives together and it's just for the kids. Hes with me everyother weekend due to them living out of town. He keeps saying hes going to leave, but he loves his kids and theres always an issue? Is he there something else he's hidding.

2007-08-09 17:59:44 · 18 answers · asked by Betty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated someone for 2 years and throughout our relationships there were moments when I didn't want o have sex. He knew this yet always asked me to do it for him and our relationship. When we did have sex I had tears coming down my face and he'd ask me if he could finish off. I didn't interact with him sexually I just laid there while he did it so that I could make "him happy." If I didn't say no yet he could see I didn't want it was it rape?

2007-08-09 17:58:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is Incest wrong?

Let's say that for the purposes of this quesiton that a couple that is related to a close degree (Incest) and has absolutely no possibility of having children. The man went under the knife and the woman had her tubes tied. There is absolutely no possibility of a child being produced from this relationship.

Let us also assume for the purposes of this question that this relationship is completely consensual with both parties. AND this relationship began after both parties were over 18 years of age.

Recap:
1) No possibility of a child being born
2) Completely consensual
3) Both parties are over 18

Present a good argument for why incest is wrong without using the bible?

2007-08-09 17:57:32 · 21 answers · asked by John D 1 in Family

2007-08-09 17:56:20 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend who I like,turned 19 today,August 10th,and I am kinda falling in love with him.And since it was his birthday,I was going to TRY and be extra nice to him.

We were talking online,and he told me "BRB,sorry Britt" and I was like,ok,and I waited for like,30 minutes almost!And then I notice that he signed out on me,while I was waiting for him to come back.

So I texted him telling him that he really knows how to make me feel like crap.

And then I called him,and I was like "Why did you sign out?" And hes like,"Sorry,I fell asleep...I guess someone else signed me out."

Then he told me while on the phone that he was gonna go,and I said ok,and hes like,bye babe,and I just said bye.

It hurt my feelings.

And I think I had the right to like,get mad over that.

I treat him AMAZINGLY.Better than Ive ever treated a guy.

And he treats me like this!

Didnt I have the right to get alittle angry?

2007-08-09 17:54:44 · 14 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Singles & Dating

My bf has a small dog. Whenever we have sex, she jumps on the bed and tries to lick one of us. then he gets up and puts her in another room. I think it's gross. She also barks all the time if he is not paying her attention and doesn't listen to him unless he has food in his hand. He seems to reinforce her bad behavior by giving her food when she is barking. Sometimes instead of cuddling with me while watching a movie he lets his dog sit on his lap and pets her. He also lets her sleep in his bed at night and talks to her like he talks to me, "gorgeous, baby, etc." Is all this normal? What should I do about this?

2007-08-09 17:52:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating