Hi what if am 20 year old and the man I'll marry is 29 to 30 yr old.Do u think that it's a problem?Bcoz I've heard so many women who are 10 years smaller than their husbands.So wat do u think on zat.Please giv me ur opinions n thanx in advance 4 ur answer..
2007-08-09 18:10:16 · 13 answers · asked by gurly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't believe that an age difference matters, as long as you both are on the same 'level'. As long as you both are completely in love and dedicated to each other, and have similar goals, mindsets, and maturity levels, then what does age matter? I'm 23, and my husband is 32, the 9 years difference only comes up when he references the 80's. :)
Age is just an indicator of how long you've been alive, nothing more. Good luck to you.
2007-08-09 18:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by amandawill 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes I think age does matter. If your mate is 9 or 10 years older, he will be changing faster, slowing down, aging. You will be the sexy ready to go out and do something and he will want to stay home and fall asleep on the couch. People will start to assume he is your dad, and you will also start to think he looks like your dad, before you are ready for that. Woman usually out live men too, so you could be a widow long before you should. Find someone just a couple of years different in age, then you can grow old together. Because you don't stay young long.
2007-08-09 18:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, not really. My husband is 12 years older than me. Age isn't what's most important. I think as long as your both mature adults you'll be fine.
Even if a guy is the same age as you are doesn't mean it's going to work. You have to be compatible. Make sure you're on the same page as far as religion, desire for children, plans for the future, and so on. These are a lot more important than an age factor.
2007-08-09 18:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs M 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Age shouldn't matter. I'm 26 and I'm currently dating a 21 year old. It's about how you are with each other. If you're both on the same levels and have similar goals. Just like a relationship with two people who are nearer in age.
2007-08-09 18:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by mbear 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
hello!! well i think there is not a problem at all, the only thing that matters is that u 2 love each other (of course u do, u r getting married!!!), as long as that happenes, nothing in the world matters!! i hope u 2 have a long loviong marraige!!
2007-08-09 18:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
For as long as both of you are above 20, you love and respect each other, mature enough to get married, then no, your age difference should not matter.
2007-08-09 18:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Honest answer: some times yes,if there are too much difference of ages.But if there is love between the couple (man and woman),the age does not matter at all.
2007-08-09 18:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
age does matter but, more importantly is maturity, and responsibility, are you ready to be responsible foe him and give up the single life ???most are at 30 no so many are at 20yrs
2007-08-09 18:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My hubby is 14 years my senior he's in his late fifties and the sex is nonexistent his erectile problems have me at the end of my rope. Women can have sex through out their lives men peter out it's really something you should consider honestly.
2007-08-09 18:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie age does not matter, as long as the two of you love each others,that is all that matter. Remember age is only a number that we carry each years. what you must do is concentrate on loving him and give yourself a chance to really get to know him.............
2007-08-09 18:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋