My guy friend who I like,turned 19 today,August 10th,and I am kinda falling in love with him.And since it was his birthday,I was going to TRY and be extra nice to him.
We were talking online,and he told me "BRB,sorry Britt" and I was like,ok,and I waited for like,30 minutes almost!And then I notice that he signed out on me,while I was waiting for him to come back.
So I texted him telling him that he really knows how to make me feel like crap.
And then I called him,and I was like "Why did you sign out?" And hes like,"Sorry,I fell asleep...I guess someone else signed me out."
Then he told me while on the phone that he was gonna go,and I said ok,and hes like,bye babe,and I just said bye.
It hurt my feelings.
And I think I had the right to like,get mad over that.
I treat him AMAZINGLY.Better than Ive ever treated a guy.
And he treats me like this!
Didnt I have the right to get alittle angry?
2007-08-09 17:54:44 · 14 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You had a strong right to be angry
2007-08-09 18:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honey you should not get angry you should get rid of this person better yet feel better by being very nice to him tell him you want to call and talk with him give him a time but never call him if he should call you say oh can I call you back and never do. Sometimes people need a bit of their own medicine. The best thing would be to just plan get rid of him he's not a friend he's just stuck on stupid has no values so you have some okay!
2007-08-10 01:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should be a little annoyed but it's really not that serious. He just forgot and fell asleep that's all. It happens all the time when people are online, especially when they're multitasking or even if they're not doing anything at all. It's not like he put you on hold on the phone which would be completely different. Besides, it was his bday, maybe he was tired or was busy?
2007-08-10 01:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by LimboChamp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sounds like you didnt just get a little angry..You got upset that he forgot about you..Those things happen and I dont think he did it intentionally and he did apologize. You put him in a pedestal (your going gaga over him) and he didnt reciprocate...He may not share the same feelings like the way you feel about him and thats whats upsetting you...Don't stay mad at him...smile....plant a big fat juicy kiss for his birthday....that might change everything between the two of you.
2007-08-10 01:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by lvchic_702 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!!
I know the feeling....
Anyway, you did have a right to be a little bit angry, but I think that if you really like him, you should try to be a bit more patient, after all, you may be right, but a guy won't go out with you if your mad at him all the time, right?
But yep, you should stand up for yourself, just remember, guys don't like to be yelled at!!!
Hope I helped!
Fashion chick!*
2007-08-10 01:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might have overreacted. What he said is totally possible, plus, I can't even tell you the number of times my friends get disconnected for one reason or another.
It's not the end of the world. So he signed out.
**** happens. Feelings get hurt. You'll be ok.
2007-08-10 00:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jen due December 09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , you are right to be upset. Sorry, He's just not that into you and you seem like a great person. If he was into you he would not make excuses of falling asleep and "others" typing for him.
2007-08-10 01:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes baby, you had a right to be upset because you were disrespected. This guy is not interested in you--this may hurt but it's true--be kind to yourself and move on. When you meet the right guy, you will not have to work so hard.
2007-08-10 01:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by Charlee G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have no right to be angry. By your own words you are just a friend, not a girlfriend. You have no claim on his time. He owes you nothing but friendship and sometimes, friendship doesn't come first.
2007-08-10 00:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your self, what will I gain by my anger with him? what will I lose with my anger. did my day come to an end, will the sun still shine tomorrow and can you smile at him if he says something funny. it take strong and true feelings to over come any wrong we felt done to us. an the power of that wrong only has the power that we give to it. my suggestion to you is don't give it any and enjoy the man you. let to day go an hold on to tomorrow.
2007-08-10 01:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Wayne C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋