English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

well heres the story...
I have been going to my chruch since i was three! Im a christian! Now my mom and dad want to leave my chruch and they say i cant just go because you go to church as a family! and you guys dont know how MUCH i love my chruch (mostly cuz of the ppl)
I love thease ppl i mean their my family i grew up with them! I have a small church and thats how i like it! And today my parents wanted us (my fam) to try this new chruch! it is a HUGE church! its just SOOO diff then what im used too! i want my old church i want it bad! But... im affrid if my family stays at my old chruch my mom and dad will stop loving god and going to any chruch! im soo confused and sad?! what should i do?? PS. Y they dont want to stay @ my church long story! but plz help thx! xox

2007-08-12 14:44:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

Be forgotten? my chruch isnt like tht if im gone 4 like 2 weeks they always ask where were u! My chruch is not like that!

2007-08-12 14:57:43 · update #1

5 answers

This is really tough. You can't make them stay at your old church. There is something going on that for them makes them feel it is time to move on. If they feel that this is the right thing to do then you can't stop them. However, you should explain to them that by staying at this other church you are staying close to the people that you love, and a church that speaks to you in a way that brings you close to God and you don't want to change that. Maybe it can be arranged that you can go to your old church with a friend while they go to a new church. I understand that they probably want you with them to go together as a family-but I can see how important this probably is for you. Good luck with everything

2007-08-12 14:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bethy C 2 · 2 0

When I was 7 y.o. we moved to a new neighborhood and to this day, years and years later I wonder what became of the friends I had and the people I knew then. I would do almost anything to talk to them again.

Time moves on and the people in our lives do too. When you are older and living on your own, you can make your own decisions, but for now, it seems, you have to go along with what your parents say. There's a "long story" that is untold. Without knowing what that is, my advice is just try and trust your parents as best you can. And continue to love God and pray for the ppl at your old church.

Wishing you a peaceful heart.
LindaLou

2007-08-12 22:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 0 0

just stick to your old church if you feel comfortable there. And if the church that your parents want you to go is also a christian church then let them be it's a matter of choice. Maybe they like the service there or other reasons like some old friend invited them to try attend their service. Your parents observed the service and they like it. Well, let your parents speak what are their reasons and try to understand each other.

2007-08-12 22:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You may have no choice but to acquiese, as hard as it may seem. Maybe you can attend your favorite church on Wednesday nights or Sunday nights after you've attended the big church. Keep in touch with your friends.

Good Luck

2007-08-12 21:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0 0

Life is all about growing and changing.

A church is just a building, you can move on and you'll be forgotten in a year, so move on and continue living your life!

2007-08-12 21:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers